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    He is married but not happy with her. He said he loves me.

    Asked Jun 10, 2012, 12:16 AM 3 Answers
    We know each other about 7 months. First we were good friends. But after one month we did sex and I fall in love with him. Not him. So I wanted to be with him but he refused me he said he can't leave his wife.Then I tried to make him understand how much I love him and when he not happy with his wife then it's no point to stay with her but he didn't want to understand. So I left him and made a relationship with another guy.

    After 15 days he send me many text where he said he really loves me and want to be with me and many things. And I saw some changes inside him so I trust him then break up my relationship with that guy and come back to my first love.

    Then we made a plan he said me at the end of summer we will be together but still he go out with his wife and day by day he just neglecting me. Last night he said me this is his habit to see another women when he have wife. But I can't trust all of this situation because I can see in his eyes he loves me. And he is like this type of guy I don't think so because I know him last 7 th months.

    I'm confused here though. Last night I said him too many things I think. He said that because he is angry, am I right? He said me when we can't see each other he did miss me and many things. Really it's a confusing situation, but I'm sure he has not a good relationship with his wife because I saw some text from his wife in his mobile. She has no respect to her husband.

    Now I want to tell you this guy is my first love. I'm 29 years old. I was virgin and he is the first guy in my life. I want to be with him but don't know is it possible or not?

    Please give me some advice.im waiting for your advice.one more thing last night when I said him "please don't be rude anymore with me,I have exam day after tomorrow" he replied me,I won't be rude,please study honey I want you to pass..

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    Jun 10, 2012, 12:52 AM
    He is NOT going to leave his wife. He made it very clear that he has done this before, is doing this with you, and is going to keep doing it. He wants his cake and his cupcake too. You are being a fool for love, sorry. Harsh words are the only way to respond to a woman in love with a married man who may have strong feelings for you, but when the chips are down, he will give you up and find another.
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    Jun 10, 2012, 02:05 PM


    I don't know whether to bluntly tell you that you're being used by a lying cheater, or that you gave your heart, and virginity to the wrong guy. I will say he will never leave his wife, and if you don't give him sex, he will find another fool who will.

    You better wake up, because a married guy will say anything to screw some nave "in love", needy female. They never leave the comfort of wife and family though when they can get it on the side cheap, or free with LIES!!
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    Jun 10, 2012, 05:05 PM
    He's using you, doesn't care about you, and is lying to you because he will not be leaving his wife.
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