He lives 2000 miles away and I miss him soo much!! We have been together for 1year and almost 3 months and so far 9months of it has been long distance. We talk about 3times a day on the phone.($$$ ..lol) We have seen each other 2 times since we had to be in long distance(only for a few weeks each time). But we wont be able to live together for a least 4 more years!! I have faith in the relationship and we truly love each other but i get really sad alot because i miss him. Is anyone else dealing with this?? or has?? Tell me your stories ..maybe they can help! I just miss him sooooo much !!!

Also in 2 months i will go visit him again! XoXo Thank you everyone~

svatnsdal

Sorry, I never have, but my brother did often due to traveling. What he and his girlfriend did was leave the relationship open. Meaning, they had the right to see others. They both agreed on it and things went absolutely fine. They were together for around 7 years, but thankfully he left her! Ya, I didn't like her. I have heard some people do that, they say if you love each other, you will end up back together every time!

lmnotok

i have been there. My advice is giving it open. Meaning both of you guys have the rights to meet and love someone else. And guess what? Fate will bring you guys together if it is meant to be. Chill out gal, there is so much to do rather than spending all the time missing someone. You might feel what im writing here is not accurate but over time, you'll see!

h0llister

we both dont want to date other people though. we see each other every few months and if we were to date other people it would be awkward. We are going to marry and when we do thats when we live together, we believe in that. It just gets lonely sometimes. I could never imagine being able to kiss him , knowing hes out there with other women. nooo way . i love him to much!!! <3 he tells me the same aswell.

Advisor

Long distance relationships are not fun, but in some cases worth every month, day, minute and second. If you truly feel that you both love each other so much, the time that you spend apart can be considered the real test. I know what you are feeling. I personally experienced these feelings with a woman that I met and love from the Philippines, over 7000 miles away. But if you wait it out, maybe your ending will be as wonderful as mine. I have a blog that I write and I published our difficult story and a poem that I wrote to this woman who eventually became my wife. That long distant relationship was the best relationship that I had my entire life. I encourage you to go to my website: BLOGHEAVEN and read my story. Then you will understand that just maybe your situation will get better. Just for the record, I met Virginia on the internet, and met her in the Philippines 3 months later. A whole year went by before we met again, but this time I went with her to the US Embassy in Manila and brought her home with me three weeks later and we were married. One thing you might consider is to stop all the telephone calls and use your computer to talk to your man directly, everyday as much as you want without any charge. That telephone bill can be kind of expensive. You can use Yahoo Messenger, or Skype, or one of a dozen audio/video programs to keep in touch. One thing you MUST keep in mind for any long distance relationship to work is that both of you MUST TRUST EACH OTHER. No relationship will last no matter how far apart you are from one another if there is no trust. You must not even doubt each other, because if you do, you are looking for more heartache and pain in the future. I hop this note has helped you, and please visit my site... Your friend.... James

Distantlove

i am in a distant relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he went away 6 months ago cos he started uni. during the time you're apart, realise that you dont have to sit around waiting for his calls/texts all day, go out with your friends, keep yourself busy etc! you'll find that ur days go by quicker, which means seeing him will come along quicker. this will also make you happier rather than missing him all day. trust is also very important. stay strong! my dad started writing to my mum cos he found her on penpal, and she lived in the far east and my dad in england. they wrote for a year, and during that time they saw eachother just two times before they got married and they are still together now. proves it can work, you just need to stay strong and when you are with eachother, make every minute last! if you are meant to be it will work.

h0llister

thank you guys soo much . !! your stories have helped me alot!! XoXo Thank you!!