 | | | Is he gay?
Asked Mar 23, 2009, 04:52 PM
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24 Answers I've never really been sure about my sexuality but now I have come to terms to with it. Also there is this guy, however I can't tell he is gay. Someone said he is but it is difficult to tell. He hasn't got the stereotypical features of a homosexual guy; the voice, his mannerisms and so on. Something someone said was that he doesn't display his sexuality on Facebook? I don't really know if this could mean anything but my mate seems to think so. Also are there any other ways of noticing whether someone is gay?
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Mar 23, 2009, 05:16 PM
| | | Yea if they say they are? Why don't you just ask him? That's the best direct way to get the correct answer. You can't depend on rumors or mannerisms. And facebook oh goodness that's the least reliable. | | |  | Family & People Expert | |
Mar 23, 2009, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by AandZ4ever  yea if they say they are? Why don't you just ask him? That's the best direct way to get the correct answer. You can't depend on rumors or mannerisms. And facebook oh goodness that's the least reliable. | I'm going to have to go with the direct approach as well. I don't put anything on my Facebook either, but I'm straight, so it doesn't mean much.
I guess if you're too scared to ask him directly, you could ask his closest friend? Better to find out the truth than to speculate. | | |  | New Member | |
Mar 23, 2009, 05:49 PM
| | | My opinion if you really want to know ask! But stereotypes you shouldn't worry about. I have a few guy friends and honestly you can't tell unless a hottie walks by and we check him out together!  | | | | Junior Member | |
Mar 24, 2009, 02:20 PM
| | | It sucks having a homosexual preference for just this reason. Honestly, the only way you can find out his is by asking if he's gay. If you want, you can come up with some excuses for asking if he says no. Good luck 
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Mar 24, 2009, 02:47 PM
| | | There is no way of knowing really other than asking him. Or you could just ask him if he has a girlfriend and see if you get an answer through that... | | |  | Ultra Member | |
Mar 24, 2009, 03:00 PM
| | | Are you trying to hook up with this guy and is that why you need to know? If you want to hook up,just ask him.The most he can say is no,I don't swing that way.
If it is just idle curiosity than I would say,what difference does it make?
My male gay friends are just like my straight male friends but better dressed.That is the only distinction. | | | | Ultra Member | |
Mar 24, 2009, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by artlady My male gay friends are just like my straight male friends but better dressed. | LMAO! Have to spread the rep..but great! | | | | Ultra Member | |
Mar 24, 2009, 04:08 PM
| | | Not necessarily true all the time but funny though. | | | | Ultra Member | |
Mar 24, 2009, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by neverme Not necessarily true all the time but funny though. | It may be stereotypical to some but to me it is an observation of my male gay friends.They dress nicer than my straight male friends. I wasn't going for funny ,simply answering if there is any way to *tell* if someone is gay. | | |
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