Hi. I have this guy that really makes me happy. We dated for a month and I thought everything was going so great. My paretns didn't like him but still let me see him so s didn't care at all. But I guess it meant something to him. We broke up at the end of that month. It killed me I cried. A few months down the road we met up again and we talking but not yet dating more or less hooking up. He had said at one point that he wished I was his again. But then once again after a month it seemed we stopped talking again. Now in the beginning of December we were once again talking and I was happier than ever. He said he was a fook for ever letting me go and we connected. After hanging out he would text me saying that we are getting closer and he didn't ever want to stop talking to me and that he has changed. I believed everything. He told me a few times that we were going to be dating soon. I was his sweetheart, honey, his.as so I thought. Then again... he dropped me like I was nothing. I was so confused and never stopped bothering him about it. He said it was his fault that really I was perfect. I gave up. Now I have one of his shirts and I called him the other day saying we needed to meet up so I could give it to him. He agreed. I mentioned also hanging out because I missed him. He would text back saying I miss you to :( I then starting talking about only hooking up and how I missed it. He was all for it as so was I. why not you know. Then a few days later after doing nothing but talking about hooking up he said he was feeling like a dumbass for leaving me. I replied day oh well it happens that I wasn't going to get cuaght up again. We talked and at one point I said I can't be mad at you I like you too much. He then said I think I'm in love with you samantha. My heart dropped. I was happy but also so confused on whether to believe him or not. He told me how when he was not with me he would do nothing but think about me and when he was with other girls still do nothing but think about me. And that love drove him crazy not having me constantly around so he said he thought not talking to me would help but it made him think about me just as much. He begged me to tell him how I felt and I did. I let it out. Then he said I can't wait to see you Friday. I asked why and he said because your so sexy. Why would you tell someone you love them then just say they are sexy? But he again calls me sweetheart and tells me he cares about me a lot a lot. When we are out he does grab my hand and when he looks at me I can see a twinkle in his eyes but if he loved me or thought he did could he just stop talking to me like that?
Mainly I had to tell you the whole story because I don't know if I saould believe him or not... thank you. Sorry for writing so much

May I ask how old are you?

I dumb age to be worried about love. 17. 18 in 6 months

You are just a friend with benefits, he gets what he wants and then leaves you. He doesn't love you, just loves hooking up with you.

I agree it looks like he is playing you.

You just keep swallowing his garbage and wonder why your confused. Cut user guy from your life, and it may hurt for a while, but the confusion will stop.

You don't have to be dumb about love, just love yourself first.

I agree you must always be able to love yourself before you can love someone else or have a stable relationship with anyone.

Pray

Maybe the reason you guys broke up really bugged him and he doesn't want to go through it again... I think he's unsure of what himself wants so he's struggling between wanting u and losing u