this seems a simple question-am l reading too much into it? l ended my two and a half yr relationship two weeks ago with immediate no contact but every few days he texts me saying l miss u babe! why is he doing this?

ROLCAM

Possibly "revenge" to get under your skin.

It is up to you to respond or ignore.

If I may say so, JUST IGNORE.

annette88

l never even thought of that but you may well be right. i suppose l was being overly romantic and thinking that maybe he was being genuine and realising what he had lost!

amicon

He might be missing you but you ended it and sticking to NC and ignoring him will stop your confusion.

annette88

yes you both are right. the problem is l still love him but we just arent compatible so even though l never text first when he says that l end up saying l miss him too! l hate this mess

amicon

Congratulations for having realised that incompatability is a reason for not staying together.
Missing someone is normal and you ll get over those feelings with time.
Dont let him get to you and ignore the texts.

Ithappenstoall

YOu should also understand that he is hurt and that he still has feelings for you.... You will know in your gut what feels right to do, either to discuss the situation with him or not to contact him

Romefalls19

Ignore it, you are only allowing him to cause you confusion. Just think, if you have this much confusion over one text, what about a conversation?

annette88

thank you to everyone for replying-all of it is food for thought. i had many text messages off him yesterday claiming he couldnt live without me..still loves me etc. i did not respond and so today nothing. it hurts like hell though!

amicon

With time and by keeping yourself busy you ll get over the hurt.