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my husband, has hit me once. he would rather spend time on the computer looking at porn all day instead of paying attention to me. he makes me do things for him constantly, i do them to avoid a fight, the slightess thing will set him off. he has hit our little dog and has thrown our cat up against a wall. he has taken a meat clever to our rabbit and has threatend to cut it. i have had to hide the knives on him. when i threaten to live him i make it out the door, but then he threatens to kill himself everytime
he tells me he has people watching me to see if i am cheating on him, but i have caught him talking to other girls and suspect he is doing the cheating and he just denys it. he has to have the best of everything and i am not allowed. there is always an excuse as to why i can not have anything. we are not allowed to visit my parents but we must see his family.
he threatens to send me back to my family and throws divorice in my face all the time. he also has spit on me, destroys things constantly. but when someone confronts him about it he denys everything and then i look like the bad person. his mother tells me i dont show signs of abuse, i feel so lost. i need help
No one deserves to live like that! Signs of abuse are not always obvious to outsiders, but it's obvious to me that you live in terror and resentment.
He's too in love with himself to kill himself...he's probably just using that to keep you with him. LEAVE! Please, before he does more than threaten your pets or hit you!
Is this abuse. Heck yeah!! It is both physical and emotional abuse that you are suffering from. And it sounds like you need to get out of that situation before you are injured badly. If he is willing to hurt animals, he will think nothing of hurting you either. Most serial killers started with killing animals (I am not saying your husband is a serial killer, just using it as an example).
By taking you away from your family he has removed your emotional supports. He has also alienated you from a life that you deserve. I would take him up on his offer of divorce. But I think first you need to get some support so that you feel strong enough to leave him. There are local battered women shelters that can help. Hospitals can also lead you in the right direction. Please get help before it is to late.
Take your pets with you when you go for their protection.
File for divorce immediately, and seek an order of protection during the proceedings. Don't speak to him, any of his friends, any of his family throughout the proceedings... if they have anything that you need to know, it should go through your attorney. Yes, you're going to need a divorce attorney... get one quickly, and fill him in on the situation... he'll take care of all of the paperwork and such.
You are in danger, please call the womans shelter near you to get assistance getting away from this person. Once you get out, don't go back even if he threatens to kill himself..
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