havent talked to my ex in 3.5 months

Enigma1999 · Oct 20, 2010, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by KyleS28

what if she really did have prior plans? I will try again for another night.

Honestly, if I were you, I would let HER make the move. She knows that you are still interested in her or at least hanging out with her.

The ball is in her court.

The last thing you want to do is present yourself as being desperate or clingy. It's not very becoming, and can be a turn off.

411Help · Oct 20, 2010, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KyleS28

what if she really did have prior plans? I will try again for another night.

Are you honestly that naive? She doesn't want to be with you. Open your eyes and look at this vicious cycle you're stuck in.

talaniman · Oct 20, 2010, 08:38 PM

Your stubbornness is a good trait if/when you know how to use it. But in this instance it will keep you stuck.

KyleS28 · Oct 20, 2010, 09:26 PM

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Your stubbornness is a good trait if/when you know how to use it. But in this instance it will keep you stuck.

Please tell me how to use it. Obviously my stubbornness isn't working for me. How is stubbornness a good trait? Please help. I'm interested in knowing even if it doesn't work in my case.

talaniman · Oct 20, 2010, 09:39 PM

Go NC with this female no matter what, and find your answers.

If you stubbornly stick to it, you will understand what I am saying.

KyleS28 · Oct 20, 2010, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Go NC with this female no matter what, and find your answers.

If you stubbornly stick to it, you will understand what I am saying.

Thats like saying just before you die you will understand the meaning of life. Who cares at that point and if you aren't willing to provide insight you aren't any help. You may not be able to help me and obviously an answer like this isn't any help but you should at least provide insight so others can benefit from this post. The generalized feedback of go nc on everybody doesn't help those of us asking for specifics. If both people go nc then nothing is accomplished other than ruining the possibility of a beautiful thing.

411Help · Oct 20, 2010, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KyleS28

thats like saying just before you die you will understand the meaning of life. Who cares at that point and if you aren't willing to provide insight you aren't any help. You may not be able to help me and obviously an answer like this isn't any help but you should at least provide insight so others can benefit from this post. The generalized feedback of go nc on everybody doesn't help those of us asking for specifics. If both people go nc then nothing is accomplished other than ruining the possibility of a beautiful thing.

In these four months that you two have been separated has she expressed any feelings of wanting to get back with you?

talaniman · Oct 20, 2010, 10:02 PM

Listen to me carefully. Not only have you been closed minded, but rude to other posters with your condescending stupid advice to others, and we have always been patient.

But your continued attitude will get you banned. Lets be clear, as you want insights to understanding, then open your mind, because you have received a lot of good insights that you have ungraciously ignored.

If you cannot act with the dignity and respect that you want for yourself to be taken seriously, we can treat you like the TROLL you are acting like. Now don't be so stubborn, and maybe you will get some of that insight you are looking for.

KyleS28 · Oct 20, 2010, 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Listen to me carefully. Not only have you been closed minded, but rude to other posters with your condescending stupid advice to others, and we have always been patient.

But your continued attitude will get you banned. Lets be clear, as you want insights to understanding, then open your mind, because you have received a lot of good insights that you have ungraciously ignored.

If you cannot act with the dignity and respect that you want for yourself to be taken seriously, we can treat you like the TROLL you are acting like. Now don't be so stubborn, and maybe you will get some of that insight you are looking for.

How do I get you to go nc with me?

411Help · Oct 20, 2010, 11:31 PM

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how do I get you to go nc with me?

What sort of advice are you looking for? Do you want us to tell you she'll come back one day with open arms begging for your forgiveness? What do you want to hear? Because, obviously, the reality is too good for you.

havent talked to my ex in 3.5 months

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