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havent talked to my ex in 3.5 months

Asked Oct 18, 2010, 07:08 AM — 39 Answers
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Do I call her to casually talk or call her to ask her to meet up?

At some point I will have to let her know my intentions and I'm not pursuing a friendship. How do I let her know my intentions without making it sound like I'm trying to win her back?

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Oct 18, 2010, 09:58 PM
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sent her a follow up text and received an "" text reply.

Whos running this site?


Kyle Kyle Kyle....

Well hey, I really wish you the best of luck.

If you think that this "" means, hey we are getting back together, well then in your situation I hope it's true.

Good luck and keep us posted.
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Oct 18, 2010, 10:28 PM
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shes easy to figure out. She is building her own confidence by using you and having you around. Don't listen to her, watch her actions. Easiest way to hook her is to turn the tables. Don't go out with your tail between your legs by going nc. Hook up with her, then let her know that there is another girl heavily pursuing you, then tell her that you've decided to leave her for this other girl because you don't settle for someone unsure of their level of commitment.

The key to understand is that you've already lost her. You can fight for her which will only push her away. You can go nc which will just end things. Or you can turn the tables on her and still have a shot with her chasing after you! Your choice.
So would one take this on how you're going to 'win' back your girl?

My ... You're quite a catch.

(as posted here: http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...-450599-3.html)
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Oct 18, 2010, 10:50 PM
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so would one take this on how you're going to 'win' back your girl?

My ... You're quite a catch.

(as posted here: http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...-450599-3.html)
Ahhh wow mystific, you sure do your research. Lol
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Oct 18, 2010, 10:54 PM
Lol .. Just a very quiet day
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Oct 18, 2010, 10:56 PM
What's with all the negative nancys? This isn't tellmehowemptymycupis.com.
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Oct 18, 2010, 11:00 PM
You came here for advice. Based on our past experiences, we gave you what we honestly believe will make you a happier better person in THE LONG RUN. But, it is a free country and you're allowed to do whatever you please. I wish you the best of luck. Keep us posted.
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Oct 18, 2010, 11:13 PM
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sent her a follow up text and received an "" text reply.

Whos running this site?
Well obviously the has sealed the deal. She obviously can't stay away from you.

Must be your charming personality that did it.
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Oct 20, 2010, 03:20 PM
So she just texted me to say 'forgot. I already have plans thursday.' what does this mean? How do you forget prior engagements? She didn't suggest a new time to meet. What does this all mean?
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Oct 20, 2010, 03:24 PM
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so she just texted me to say 'forgot. I already have plans thursday.' what does this mean? How do you forget prior engagements? She didn't suggest a new time to meet. What does this all mean?
Kyle,

This is her way of saying that it's over for her, and that she doesn't want to hang out with you.

I think that you need to move on.

Take this as a learning lesson and roll with it.
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Oct 20, 2010, 03:38 PM
What if she really did have prior plans? I will try again for another night.
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