I have trust issues, and am kind of confused of this situation.
I HAVE TWO QUESTIONS. (question 2 is much more important and is one of my main concerns)
QUESTION 1:
Hey everyone. Ok well I always had trust issues with guys and the guy I have been with for 5 months surprised me by making his mom introduce me to his whole family as his girlfriend... My question is, what does it mean when a man (he is in his mid 20's) has his mother introduce his girlfriend to his whole family as his girlfriend? Can this mean that he is serious? Or am I just another girl? I am always around his mom and sisters and brothers and he even has children and is a single father at a very young age (he told me that its impossible for him to find a lady that can accept the fact that he has children and he is thankful that he found me, there are alt of things about him that most woman would hate but I am dealing with it and it doesn't bother me much and I am helping him alt with his struggles)... This is the only thing that made me feel like "wow, maybe this guy really is serious about me as his girlfriend" because no man has ever introduced me to his whole family (his mom, grandpa, aunts, uncles, cousins, sisters, brothers.. etc) and I just hope that this does mean something because most guys I have been with never introduced me to their family as their girlfriend and later on I found out that it was because they were cheating on me or already had a girlfriend (that explains my trust issues) He has put me through alt in the past but everything is better now and he is surprised that I am still here for him, he introduced to his family when he seen that I really did stick around after everything I went through with him. So what do you men think? What does it mean when a man has his mother introduce his girlfriend to his whole family as his "girlfriend". I just hope that this means that I truly am the only girl in his life.
QUESTION 2:
Everything is going wonderful with me and my boyfriend except for the fact that he hates kissing. He is a romantic person but he just hates kissingThe first couple of weeks that we were dating he always madeout with me and was very effictionate (mostly because I would make the moves) , but later on throughout the relationship he just started giving me pecks and we never made out ever since (its been 2-3 months since we made out) When I first met him, He told me that he was with a girl for 9 months and never kissed her because he hates kissing, he thinks that kissing is disgusting, and he said that he has been hating the thought of kissing since he was kid (he is in his mid 20's now) and I just don't understand this! I see it so much differently, if you love someone you would WANT to kiss them, and there is nothing wrong with me, I am a very attractive young lady, he is very attracted to me, so the fact that he doesn't want to kiss me hurts me completely, I don't know what to think. I am not a bad kisser at all. Do you think that I am just making a big deal out of it? What do you think could be the reason? Our relationship is healthy, I am ALWAYS around his family almost everyday, and we are happy, but the whole kissing thing really hurts me, he hasn't gave me a peck in 2 weeks, which really hurts me, he says that making out should be before two people make love... but I am a virgin. I just don't understand why he hates kissing so much, what do you think? Could this mean that he is cheating on me? <--- maybe I'm just blowing this out of porportion. He is a romantic person, he just doesn't kiss me. Maybe he really doesn't like kissing and I am just making a big deal out of it like always.
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