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Asked Jun 12, 2008, 07:06 AM — 3 Answers
My boyfriend n I are in relationship from 2yrs.I really love him so much.I just think of him every second .He too loves me but he is not like me.He manages every thing like he hangs out with his friends ,family...... But I am unable to be like him. I stopped calling my friends, I want him also to do the same.I know it's unfair but I can't help it. I always want him to talk with me.I really scared that one day he will hate for my stupid behavior but what should I do? I really can't express my feeling when he doesn't call me.I can't concentrate on anything,I start weeping all d day.I am better than him in all the ways(looks,career..) but why do I love more than he loves me.I started hating myself for loving him so much.plzz help me

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Jun 12, 2008, 07:34 AM
I don't think this means you love him more than h loves you..He just knows how to have a life besides you...I believe you are a young girl, so I think we young people get bored pretty quick, so it would be a good idea for you to call your friends and hang out with them instead of wanting to be with your boyfriend all the time...You can't make him your everything..What about if you guys break up one day?..What are you going to do?..stay in your room for your entire life?...nooo you got to go out, and have a life...So I know you want to talk to him all the time, but give him some space.Guys don't like needy girls, they like confident people..So show him you are confident and that you can handle a day without him..
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Jun 12, 2008, 09:23 AM
STORY:

To get some potato chips, all the little girl had to do was gently open the top, reach in and take some. But she couldn't control herself, her excitement got the best of her and she squeeze-squeeze-squeezed the bag and bounced it around the room trying to get to the chips. She abused the bag to the point that when the bag finally DID open, all that comes out was potato chip dust. -The End

Your relationship is like this. If you don't calm yourself down and keep these negative energies OUT of play between you two, you will abuse this relationship to the point that it will end.

This is completely avoidable. Your jealousies and insecurities are not his problem. If you make them his problem by wielding them against him, he'll simplify the situation by eliminating the problem...YOU.

This is completely avoidable.
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Jun 12, 2008, 09:37 AM


You have issues and are making them worse by isolating yourself and putting unrealistic demands on him, and yourself.

My advice is to get some counseling for your insecurity, and get healthy again.
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