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Old Oct 10, 2006, 10:14 PM
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Guys: Are You Annoyed?

Are guys annoyed by loud girls? Do all guys want girls that are strictly quiet and reserved?

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Old Oct 10, 2006, 10:21 PM   #2  
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In all honesty I think it's a mixture. Like most things in life, no one prefers an extreme to one extreme, and I wouldn't date an obnoxious loud girl or one that never spoke. Basically they both need to be in moderation. Both are good qualities and they are both appropriate in different situations. However, the really loud ones are usually harrassed more because they obviously stand out more where as the others ones seem to just fill in with shadows. But I would choose a girl that leaned more toward loud, because I prefer a girl that speaks her mind and isn't afraid to voice her opinion.

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Old Oct 11, 2006, 06:26 AM   #3  
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They say there is someone for everybody. I prefer peace and quiet, so a loud female would probably wear thin on the nerves. Hey, I'm married my wife tells me what I like.
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Old Oct 11, 2006, 06:48 AM   #4  
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Being loud generally is a sign that you are desperate to be heard...men typically do not like it when girls try really hard to get attention, which is usually the case if a girl is "loud." These are just my opinions....
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Old Oct 11, 2006, 09:28 PM   #5  
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And remember communication is comprised of body language, tonality, words, breathing, etc...being loud is kinda like begging to be heard in my opinion.
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Old Oct 12, 2006, 05:42 PM   #6  
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Generally, yes. Being quiet and reserved is certainly preferable to being loud and obnoxious.
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Old Oct 12, 2006, 08:12 PM   #7  
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i would say it depends where they are loud...
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just be yourself and someone will love you for it. i dont mind loud people as long as it is them. not some false person they bring out to try and impress people.
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Hi Guys.. sorry for butting in hehe but Even me as a women dont particularly like loud women... they do me head in! I just see them as attention seekers.. need to be heard and seen!
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I'm not sure what exactly you mean by "loud". I've heard that term applied to very extroverted, assertive women. In that case there are certainly some guys who are attracted to women with some "life" to them.

If by "loud" you mean volume of her talking then I would agree and it applies to both sexes, it can be annoying.
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