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Anybody with greek boyfriends?
My greek boyfriend left me with a child.He dissapeared and cant find him.I did nothing wrong,been faithfull to him.Cant understand why happend this.We were making wedding plans....Are greek man so big liers?
You cant judge a whole race of men by something one man does, doll. I have seen most Greek men to make great husbands and fathers. How long has he been gone? Did he give you any signs, like did he seem tense or irritated or anything? Maybe with these wedding plans coming up he was a scared and he needs some time to put everything together. were you living with him and did he take anything with him when he left besides maybe his wallet?
I agree with crankiebabie, you can't judge a nationality or race by one mans infeldelity. Unfortunately you were with someone who disrespected you by leaving you and your baby. Don't blame Greek men for this scum bags choices. Although I can understand your anger. But just remember, any man of any creed,race,and nationality would do this. Im sorry you were treated this way. And your better off without him. Hopefully for your childs sake you can find him and have him own up to his responsibility
you can not judge any nationality, race or person by others of the same type. There are good and bad in all groups.
Many men are lyers, you will find 100's of them on the interent every day, ok most likely 1000's trying to find and convince women to meet them and then have sex with them. Some date for a while but end up having families back home somewhere or several other women they are also seeing.
Other men like the idea of marriage just not being married, and then having children and raising them make many men run.
In the end best advice, no sex outside of marriage, that solves issues of children and will end the men only wanting sex not wanting a good friend and partner.
Do you have any idea what happened? Like what crankiebabie said you can not base this experiance on this one person on an entire culture/race. That is not really sensible. You did not give any details about what happened? Only you can figure this out on your own. How long has this person been gone for? In order to take this question more seriously you need to help us by telling us what things were happening and if you can get intouch with him and etc....
I am married to a Greek man who is actually an AWESOME father! He IS older though...which I believe makes a BIG difference!
I have to disagree with the "father" (priest) To not "judge this nationality is an under statement! Hun, do yourself a favor and count that blessing of a child as a gift from God!
If I was to do it all over again... NO WAY!!
Don't get me wrong, I love my husband BUT, the politics of his mentally ill greek family who screw's with my head as much as possible because well, they are just A$$ holes.
they judge ANYONE who is NOT of Greek orgin. They think they are better than you and say little thing's just to get under your skin. They kiss your face and stab you in the back as you walk into the next room.
The priest's are not much better...they steal money from the parish and lie about where it went. then they sue members because they are embarrassed of there own behavior.
Greek's are very proud and stubborn people! They are quick to place the blame on some one else because they are such "good Christian" people they are flawless.
Out of experiece hun, Raise your boy to be saine and AWAY from them or you will NOT break this cycle. YOU WILL NEVER.....(i mean this truely) NEVER, EVER BE ACCEPTED INTO HIS GREEK FAMILY. THEY WILL THINK OF ANY AND EVERYTHING TO MAKE YOU LOOK BAD AND FEEL INSECURE! Some screwy crap!
You are so much more worth putting your child through that and your sanity.
Be blessed!!!
how can you think of people in such a way??
Who told you that Greeks are always like this and how can you categorize??
The only blame that you can put on the Greeks (apart from being handsome) is that they have close bonds with their families and believe in religion (not the young ones though). they make good families and they are not different than any other men on earth....
Can you say for instance that all Britons drink their @$$ and get drunk all day? can you say about Italians that are big liars and like to sell romance? you cant say all these because people come from somewhere and are raised in different families with different mentality.
I am Greek and proud to be one, not Christian as you say all of them are Christian believrs and you cant just speak like this...
situations like these can happen to anyone...whether from Greece or Burundi...
try to be more openminded!!
we are amazing people and we know how to live!!!!
Zito i Ellada
You obviously do not know how you treat people outside your culture!
Thats because you are so vain & selfish to see! I DO know because I have gone thru it for over the past decade & so have my children!
They have shund my children treating them like they do not exist. they are rude and lie about me because they love to start rumors.
Walk a mile in the shoes of people that are new to your "family". Until then, you will always be what I explained in my first statement!
I have gone thru pure Hell with my husbands family. Every time I stick my neck out to help or try to become involved, I get it cut off! YOU, have no clue & arer ignorant...so, do not answer if you have no clue to our side!
AND what are you doing answering this 5 months after?
here again, try to see you are not the majority..you cant say that ALL Greeks are.....bla..bla....you cant see you are insulting us all???
Im replying now coz i happened to see your post and i only saw it today...i was looking for something else....
dont speak in generalities....its not nice and doesnt show culture on your behalf!
not all families are like your husband's.
Actually most Greek men are liars, and cheat on their spouses. I am not trying to be rude and say that all Greek men are like that. I am Greek American and i met my ex husband in Greece. We got married and came back to the states and raised a family. He was a good provider that i have to say about the Greek men. He would work very hard as a contractor and after work he would go out with other girls. I have seen him many times and he would lie to my face saying he was talking to a friends sister, or wife.
I'm Greek American and I agree Greek families are close. They believe Greeks are the best and they want their children to marry someone from a Greek background. Greek women love to gossip about anyone and anything. They go to church with their Gucci bags just so they can bee seen and envy by others. They put their children to Greek schools because they don't want their children to socialise with other races. They have birthday parties and tell their children to only invite the Greek children. How do I know...well I am Greek.
I was born in Greece and I came here when I was 5 years old. I saw how my parents, grandparents aunts and uncles were treating some of my friends that were not Greek. I saw the look of disapproval on my mothers face when I was dating a Italian boy. Greeks only want Greeks.
I married a Greek man and I lived in hell for 15 years with him. He was a liar, a cheat and a racist. He was mentally abusive and physically, until one day when I stood up and threw his clothes out the window and told him F... Y..
Since that day my mother still blames me for being divorced. I don't care I am free from him and I raised my children to like all races and religions. My oldest daughter has a boyfriend for 4 years and he is Irish and Italian. My youngest daughter has an Irish boyfriend. What they believe and what they do is none of my business as long as my children are happy...I am happy.
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