Whats up People, i have a girl and we have been together for about 10months now and i still haven't had sex with her yet!!! She says she wants to wait until she gets married. But i am thinking about ending the relationship because it is tuff on me. My friends say i need to keep her and just cheat on her on the side. I do not want to do that to her because she is a sweet girl and i do love her but i'm getting to the point where i don't care anymore. When i am in her apartment and we kiss and hug i sometimes don't want to be there because i know we are not going any further, becuase its like a waste of time. Get my D___ hard and go home frustrated, i'm probably going to just stop calling and seeing her for at least 1 week straight, just to calm myself down, but i know that she will probably get upset about that!!! what should i do.... Any advice out there?

cutos

PLEASE!!!! DONT SINK THAT LOW AND CHEAT FOR SEX!! well since you say you really love her then you should be able to wait for her till shes ready to have sex. but if your not willing to wait then your a peice of trashy BF that sounds like he only wants some soory for any hard feelings but itz what i see ~!* PEACE ~!*

letmetellu

I wish the girlfriend would post a question here and the same people could give her some advise. My advise would be for her to stay her course, one reason being that I feel this guy is just out for the sex and does not care enough for her, if he is thinking about finding a piece on the side and still date her.

Krs

1, First off your mates are shallow and i hope u dont listen to them.
2, if the only reason you are considerin to break with is coz she dont want to have sex, then she totally doesnt deserve this, because all u can think of is sex, while she is seeing the whole picture of a relationship. Yes sex is grand, but its NOT the most important thing. So if she decides to sleep with you, you wont consider breaking up?

I would sit down and talk to her gently. What boys dont consider is that fact of how delicate is it for a women to lose her virgnity, 99% of women see that as a huge deal and it shouldnt taken for granted.

When i meet my man, i was fairly naive in the bedroom. He never once thought of breaking up with me coz i made him wait, why, becuase he truly cared for me and he RESPECTED ME

NowWhat

You should break it off with her. You aren't in love with her - that is obvious in your post. Cheating on her would be a devastating betrayal. Be a MAN and walk away!

shygrneyzs

I think your gf needs a more understanding bf - which is not you. Sorry, but if you are only focused on her virginity, there is not much else going on with you. Go and find the girl you want and please leave your current gf alone. You have no value for her values.