Why is that. Girls are attracted to jerks I know why but don't understand it. Also why is it a girl will jump on a emotion but if they think about it and know what they want they stall and maybe not take any actions. I have another question, this is for girls. Do you just do something because its easy like for instance you like this guy but don't want to be with him forever sorry you love him and already agreed to marry him but you change your mind would you leave or stay with him just because its easier, if so WHY?

jeffatl

People want what they cant have. My guess is that you are coming across a bit too strong buddy. Girls like the jerks, but they never marry them. Im not sure how old you are, but maybe you need to go for some older women. I have come to realize that girls 21 and younger are INSANE (sorry ladies, but you are).......ok guys too. I am 24 now and wont go younger than 22 PERIOD. You need to calm yourself down a bit and start liking yourself again. As for question #2............I have no idea what you are talking about...............sorry.

Krs

Everybody is an individual u cant judge like that.
Yes teenage girls may fall for jerks and jack the lads u know, i did when i was 17, but hey that was surely short lived. But then again are teenage boys nice? NO.
Its all the growing up phase. Thinking your an adult will in actual fact your just a kid, really.
Im 27 and i dont look back on my teenage years and say i wont go under that than coz life is all an experience and u learn from your own mistakes.

Krs

same goes for teenage boy jeffatl

jeffatl

LOL! I know..........I know. It does take maturity to get past those things in life. Boys and girls. I like what you said about "learing from your mistakes". That is REALLY important to maturity. I ALSO think thats what our friend here needs to do. Dont just shrug off things that heppen to you in life, good and bad. Learn from the things you go through.

Krs

How old are you?

milliec

since i can't express my agreement with KRS unless writing a post, i might as well add the following:
we have to be VERY careful making general statements like these, "wrongful hurtings".
there girls too, attracted to manipulative men, like butterflies to candles,then turn out with broken hearts and burnt wings.
as for the other part of your question, this is not so clear to me: do you mean that they seem to get deeply involved with someone, and only then stop to think?
if so, this is also a very general observation. it might happen that a person is attracted by someone, and then when they know each other better they have 2nd thoughts, or shall we rather say, that when the 1st excitement wears out, other things become visible, and people begin to consider a wider range of aspects.
again, this is true for both sexes.
good luck,
millie

NeedKarma

I do see a trend where girls seem to go through a phase where they want to date the "dangerous" man. I think they feel "cool" by doing this. Invariably they get hurt (hopefully only psychologically) and realize a nice guy who respects you is the way to go. Sadly some become single moms during this time.

fredg

Hi, wrongful,
You have some good answers.
Just like to add that many teens go through the same thing. I don't know your age, but it's normal for teens, as well as some a little older.
With some experience with dating, you will be able to see it right off, and don't be that concerned about it.
You can CHOOSE who you wish to date, then you can choose if you want to date the same girl again.
As for marriage, or thinking about it, many don't even think about marriage when they are dating. It's only after some months with the same girl that you might think about it. It also depends on age. Teens should not be getting married! There is still too much to learn, people to meet. I do wish you the best, and good luck. Be selective.

talaniman

There should be a law that you must be at least 40 before you can be married and no shacking until 60. that would solve all these relationship problems!!