so ur havng a wonderful relationship all of a sudden ......boom.......the girl comes upto u and says i wanna be single,i want to experience things being single,i want to have fun with my friends,all the things that u have done together and gave her all the freedom she wanted when u start to think who has brain washed this girl u once knew and u become so confused and powerless that the only thing u can do is to give her what she is demanding..better yet you go to a club a mix of boys n girls as your friends and you bump into her anyways you go say hi but even after that she is still checking you out seeing if your gonna approach a girl or not more confusing ey,makes u wonder if wana call her the next day.......but why wud she care after all, shes the one who called all the shots of not being with me. her being 19 almost 20 maybe just being confused herself . dont get me wrong its been 2 months after the breakup and really do miss her now i know in my heart and soul that i have not done anything wrong to damage this relationship thats probably why its just a little bit harder 4 me to move on but i will eventually and truly did love this girl .now why wud a girl like that wud wana throw 2 years away 4 something she was doin already b4 the breakup.............

statictable

Every one has a different reason for what they do and some are good reasons while others are just shallow. Try to be close to those who have good reasons for what they do.

log

no im not trying to be mean or anything i have no bitterness towards her but she tries to be mean when she is around her friends and when shes not its a different story thats why i rearly talk to her any more but wat kind of good is therre out of this...i cud feel she has feelings 4 me everytime im around her but to afraid to say wat she feels or wat her friends feel about her 4 that matter

Applejacks83irv

My friend its killer her inside and now she has tho sollow IT! Now you injoy being single NO EX DOSEN'T WANT TO SEE THERE BF OR GF DOING BETTER THEN THEY ARE!!!!!!

log

i guess thats a good way of looking at it but i miss her lol shud i not tak to her at all anymore.......... wat do the ladies think about this i mean the more opinions the merrier thanks

log

well anyways i have been goin no contact and just wanted to know will she ever come back

Applejacks83irv

hey i don't know? i ask that ?'s to myself... me and my chick broke up 2 1/2 ths ago? and i was in a 7yr relationship....and she told me the samething...but all you can do is let it be!! MAN UP!! i know its hard i feel your pain....hell find you another chick i did! i got a date this saturday! and she hell alot better looking oh man! and at booty DAME! but it still sucks!! i got use to the other booty and i miss that booty i was in love with that booty.....but hey find you a girl and be friends and still no contact ...i know it kill you and its killing me to homey...but hey its ok?....look don't count on her.. she may never call you..so why wait?? you think she miss you? NO she out there GOD KNOW WHAT she doing?.. so thats why you need to move and keep moving and live and time will tell and don't for get!, what gose around comes around....you see so don't count on her calling you, and if she do? call her next week!

Jiser

Best thing now: Is NO CONTACT! That means you avoid her and do not speak to her.

Join different clubs if your going to run into her. You don't need any confusion in your life!

log

i used that nc 4 about two weeks so she decides to call me telling me that she just called me cause i told her to not be a stranger (ya right )and she went on telling me how she got injured but then i told her that this is hard to hear at the moment and really hurts as i told her that she paused and said she wont call anymore untill i have nomore fellings 4 her its like shes using this kind of reverse psychology on me which is really stupid.. wat does this all mean.did i say something wrong

kuulski

I dont think you are doing anything wrong expect taking the call.
Dont take her calls and dont contact her until you are ready. If you are ever ready or down the line you may decided you are better without her. Sounds like she is either confused or trying to keep you around just in case. Either way that is not your problem anymore. Good Luck