so ur havng a wonderful relationship all of a sudden ......boom.......the girl comes upto u and says i wanna be single,i want to experience things being single,i want to have fun with my friends,all the things that u have done together and gave her all the freedom she wanted when u start to think who has brain washed this girl u once knew and u become so confused and powerless that the only thing u can do is to give her what she is demanding..better yet you go to a club a mix of boys n girls as your friends and you bump into her anyways you go say hi but even after that she is still checking you out seeing if your gonna approach a girl or not more confusing ey,makes u wonder if wana call her the next day.......but why wud she care after all, shes the one who called all the shots of not being with me. her being 19 almost 20 maybe just being confused herself . dont get me wrong its been 2 months after the breakup and really do miss her now i know in my heart and soul that i have not done anything wrong to damage this relationship thats probably why its just a little bit harder 4 me to move on but i will eventually and truly did love this girl .now why wud a girl like that wud wana throw 2 years away 4 something she was doin already b4 the breakup.............

Applejacks83irv

i agreed you should just find you a chick, you like? and for the girl let her lived her life and she want to be friends tell the truth... tell her i don't want to break up , but i know you do, and i repsect you, so i will respect your decision. I'm sorry but i can't think we can ever be friends at this point in our lives because i need sometime myself to get through this. i don't know if we could ever get back together again but if we did we would have to work through our problems to make our relationship better. i wish you well and good luck on your single life!......you see your like planting this seed in her head ...come on think about it?.. you sound like your doing the break up and she going to think about you and the what if? or was she wrong. SO? after you tell her no contact untill your ready to do what you want to do? and by then? its probley to late for her because your over her and you found a new girl thats MUCH SWEETER and THAT WANT YOU AND I MEAN YOU TOO BE HER DADDY!!! ...oh yah my date if you want to know is fine and we were fighting about me paying for her like the dinner and stuff like that hell she was giving me her money to pay it was cool i never had that? she is way better than my ex...i don't even thank about her any more