hey guys

well as you know theres this gilr that came onto me and she had a boyfriend we have been doing things like kissing and stuff no sex.. for about 8 months

anyway she was going threw a ruff patch at the time. i was a big fool for letting my self get sucked into this but what can i say i liked the effection.. anyway thats the reason why i held back with the sex didnt wanna get to involed so she went back to him coz i guess she couldnt get anywhere with me

and now she is all like oh lets be friends i love what we had i still feel the same way. i basicly said hell no.. i cant do that

a real friend wouldnt do that to somone

anyway just wondering whats your guys views on this

i do feel used though which is always fun hard as well as wel work in the same office but im gonna be nice but no way over nice

Jesushelper76

Time to end it. Why did you let it go on so long. Now is the time to turn away and never look back.

chuff

To me you seem to already know the answer. You need to end it and let it go. If she's the kind of person to cheat on her boyfriend and toy with your emotions she's not the type of person you need to be friends with.

TrueFaith

thanks jess and chuff.. yeah i agree.. only sad factor is i work with her and live with her she is my friends room mate ;z.. so its annoying.. but yeah it just made me laugh to think that we could be friends after that. i mean i dont hate her.. at all ill be nice and try and make the work place a nice place just hope it works out..

thanks again

valinors_sorrow

Now here is someone who knows how to let go AND rise above. Wow!

It really is true that the best way to deal with a game is don't be in the game.

Could you maybe bottle that so we could make a killing here selling it to a few folks? LOL

I say BRAVO for this plan and attitude.

talaniman

You already know what to do, and no matter what she says stay emotionally and physically unavailable.