My Ex Never Told Me He Was Married

MJ6216 · #1 Nov 13, 2006, 07:34 AM

SO I STARTED TALKING TO THIS GUY, AND HE WAS TOTALLY PERFECT FOR ME...WE LISTENED TO THE SAME MUSIC, WENT TO THE SAME CONCERTS, AND ALL THAT GOOD STUFF. WELL I FOUND OUT ON MYSPACE.COM THAT HE IS MARRIED, AND I KNOW IT WAS HIM BECAUSE HIS WIFES PAGE HAD THEIR WEDDING PICTURES ON THERE. SO I CONFORNTED HIM ABOUT IT AND HE TOLD ME THAT HE HATES HIS MARRIAGE AND HE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH HIS WIFE ANYMORE. MIND YOU THEY PRACTICALLY JUST GOT MARRIED IN APRIL. SO I TOLD HIM THAT NOTHING COULD EVER PROGRESS BETWEEN US PAST A FRIEND SHIP. AND NOW HE WONT EVEN TALK TO ME, BUT EVERYTIME WE ARE AT A CONCERT HE LOOKS AT ME AND SMILES AT ME...I DONT KNOW WHETHER I SHOULD GO AND TALK TO HIM OR WHAT SHOULD I DO??

THANKS

MJ

Geoffersonairplane · Nov 13, 2006, 07:39 AM

Sorry to be cruel but I have to be honest about my true opinion. It sounds like he just wanted to use you as a bit on the side.

I don't mean that in a nasty way, you are worth more than that but it just seems like this. I think you should stay well clear of him. The fact that he was no t honest with you about his marriage must ring alarm bells.

Take care and know that you are worth more than this.

Oh..and him smiling at you at a concert is just his way of playing with you..

I may be wrong but I'm sure you will get more good advice here..

Wildcat21 · Nov 13, 2006, 07:41 AM

Of course he didn't.

Stop all contact with this LIAR, cheater.

"HE TOLD ME THAT HE HATES HIS MARRIAGE AND HE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH HIS WIFE ANYMORE" - HA!!!!! of course he did. He wants to sleep with you - nothing more. They ALL say that - CLASSIC!!!

Move on - find a single guy that's avaialbe that wont lie to you.

Married guy with a Myspace - what a creepy jerk - isn't MySpace for 14 year olds? YES! Big red flag there.

Geoffersonairplane · Nov 13, 2006, 08:01 AM

Hang on a minute, you call him your ex in your question.

Ex what, friend, boyfriend. From the info you gave in your post, it does not sound like an ex boyfriend.

More info please..

MJ6216 · Nov 13, 2006, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Geoffersonairplane

Hang on a minute, you call him your ex in your question.

Ex what, friend, boyfriend. From the info you gave in your post, it does not sound like an ex boyfriend.

More info please..

HE WAS AN EX BOYFRIEND. BUT WE WERE ONLY TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS TILL I FOUND OUT ABOUT THE WIFE.

Geoffersonairplane · Nov 13, 2006, 08:13 AM

Stay Far, Far, Far Away from him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

kp2171 · Nov 13, 2006, 08:14 AM

ex to me means you were dating/intimate/etc... youll need to straighten out what you mean exactly.

assumung you were closer than just two people who see each other now and then at a club/bar/concert/whatever... sure...go talk to him.

as in go up to him and throw your drink in his face.

basically if you have any kind of relationship with him you are asking for whatever you get in return. no excuses and no room to say "why me?"...

as long as he is married he should be wearing his ring.

MJ6216 · Nov 13, 2006, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Geoffersonairplane

Stay Far, Far, Far Away from him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BUT IT IS REALLY HARD BECAUSE WE GO TO ALL THE SAME CONCERTS...YA KNOW I MEAN I CAN ONLY AVOID HIM SO MUCH BECAUSE THE CONCERT SPACE IS ONLY SO BIG....AND I MEAN WHEN I DO SEE HIM I DONT TALK TO HIM...

Geoffersonairplane · Nov 13, 2006, 08:17 AM

Well..O.K.

Just don't talk to him, think about him or anything HIM!!

He is a problem waiting to happen!!



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