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Girlfriend Is Mad, When I Should Be.

Asked Jul 6, 2008, 08:33 PM — 17 Answers
So my best friend likes my girlfriend but nothing will ever happen between them and I know this but, last night me and my girlfriend were at a party and she totally ignores me like she always does and went and was flirting with my best friend. She had not said barley 2 words to me whole night but found no problem linking to his arm when we all decided to get some air (we had been drinking).

So I did what a lot of people would have done. I got mad and punched my car (not hard) but loud enough for them to question my actions as I stormed in house..

Now I told her that I was mad because of what she did, but she made me look like the bad guy somehow saying that she doesn't like PDA and that if she had been over me it would make other people awkard or something like that.. Anyways do I have a right to be mad?

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Jul 6, 2008, 09:15 PM
You have the right to be mad, and I am wondering how she can be your girlfriend? Especially when she is ignoring you and linking arms with your best friend. I think there is a lot more to this then what they are letting you know. It is up to you how you handle this, but getting angry about it and showing that is not going to make you look good but then they probably new that was going to be your reaction. What you need to do from now on no matter what happens is keep a cool head and make swift but silent decisions and move on. That is just my opinion.
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Jul 6, 2008, 09:31 PM
I agree with starfires reply that she could be trying to get you to break up with her.
IF she isn't just having strong feeling that she doesn't know what to do with and in denial even to herself then she KNOWS what she is doing and trying to get you to dump her first.
Either way your temper could be an excuse for her ending up breaking up
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Jul 6, 2008, 09:52 PM
That is why, if he thinks this is a good move is to actually break up with her, but on his own terms. Again just my personal opinion. Remember actions speaks louder then words. Her actions spoke loud.
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Jul 6, 2008, 10:21 PM
Yes you have all the right in the world to be mad but don't take it out on your car! This has also happened to me and my girlfriend but I don't get mad any more I get even! When she did it the 3rd time I started flirting with her friends every time I saw them! Naturally she got mad. But when she did I brought up all the tymes she's did it to me! After that she stopped doing it!
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Jul 7, 2008, 02:51 AM
Sounds like a typical teenager scenario.
I've had this.A girl in a club asks you out the first night you met her.
Then she gets to know your friends and decides she gets on with one of them mre than you and that she'd prefer to be with him.

This is why dating was invented.
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Jul 7, 2008, 07:10 AM


I'll be honest, as you could be having more fun with someone who is more compatible, and less dramatic, more loyal, and better able to talk to, with less mind games.

Just me, why put up with these changes, as you already are having your buttons pushed? Let your buddy(?) have these problems.

Why even be mad, when you can be gone, to something a lot better.
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Jul 7, 2008, 07:29 AM
Dude? The way I see it this cat want your steak! Bad! He says ( I will never hurt you friend! Best friends!) BULL SH!T! If he was your friend he would tell your girl to bug off! Come on real talk here! Your chick is a d!tch! (say it!....its okay!... SHE A d!tch!) OKAY NOW THAT YOU FEEL BETTER! You tell her and you break up with her. I know what your doing I'm not dumb?..yes I'm jealist that you show more interest in my best friend in front of me! You ask me that being a HO for show! And drop her and the big key here! Keep your COOL!
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Jul 10, 2008, 09:20 AM
Hey man? What's up? What? Happin? She try to talk to you or what?
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