Girlfriend loves me and ex?

talaniman · Apr 30, 2012, 05:40 AM

You are persistent in wrecking your head. I think she just wants you to leave her alone about this love thing, so you need to do just that, and get your dignity, and self respect back,or I am afraid this will get worse for you, in her eyes. She has other things she would rather do without you.

You are stuck, and need to unstuck yourself. I doubt any would tell you to keep pushing for another chance, Sorry!

Matt1513 · Apr 30, 2012, 03:42 PM

Ya I know I'm an idiot for still trying even though she told me how much she likes this guy but I just can't give up on her... I don't know why I can't but we're almost back to how we used to be before dating.. So I'm just hoping that maybe she will fall for me again even though I highly doubt that..

talaniman · Apr 30, 2012, 04:44 PM

Maye you should examine why you can't let her go and do your own thing. I call it following your heart instead of your head. Putting feelings before facts.

In truth the reason you can't is because you don't want to. What is your head telling you? Facts only!

Matt1513 · Apr 30, 2012, 04:54 PM

I want to but it's hard... She's been texting me all daybut gets mad when dating or the past gets brought up so you honestly think there's no way to get her back?

talaniman · Apr 30, 2012, 05:08 PM

NONE AT ALL, and thats what her actions and words are telling you. No dating, no second chance. Just text buddies. Seems you are frustrating yourself, and she is very clear about rejecting all offers at romance.

You choose to ignore the obvious.

Matt1513 · May 1, 2012, 01:53 AM

There has to be some way to get her to feel that way for me instead of him again...

Kahani Punjab · May 1, 2012, 02:12 AM

Matt,
There is a lot going on, which you NEVER see, and the things which you see become important, and a proof or witness and a cause of disturbance. You have seen her with her ex, and that is the point, which should have turned a breaking point, but you say, he says he still loves you. Right? What is the proof? Is not it that he is a flirt and wants to relish all the flesh, which comes his way? Is it not that he wants to extract something monertary out of you? Can I ask if you compare yourself with his ex, what is your standing? Is not it that she might have been tempted by him (her ex) and now he might have dumped her again, that she still wants you as she might have come back.....

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JudyKayTee · May 2, 2012, 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Matt1513

There has to be some way to get her to feel that way for me instead of him again...

You cannot make someone love you - in fact, you can't make anyone do much of anything.

I think you are chasing a dream. That's harsh, but I believe it's the truth.

Believe her words and actions.

mmresd · May 2, 2012, 10:33 AM

You don't, you accept her decision, and move on. She is still involved with someone from her past, until she is over that you need to back off. I would back off forever, why wait for someone who might never come around?

Matt1513 · May 6, 2012, 01:37 PM

My ex wants space but then a couple minutes later she'll start talking to me about the class were in together. People are saying to her that I'm saying she dumped me for her ex and she doesn't want to be close because of it. Even though I showed her I was defending her she says cool and blames me for spilling stuff on her arm and phone for her texting me and says she'll talk to me later, is she playing games with me? Because I still want to be with her but she's being really difficult right now and I have no idea how to get her back...

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