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| Originally Posted by Ash123 Are you planning to marry?
If not, what are you waiting for? I'd consider telling her you want to break b/c a life without intimacy is ...lame.
it'll put all her cards on the table. if she says ok, you know that she cannot go on.
if she fights, see how much....heck, it may put her in the mood, you have the guts tp walk "off the lot"
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Sorry Ash, that sounds like mental and physical blackmail - BIG TURN-OFF.
If a guy cannot be attentive and helpful during the day, then the night is not going to be better just by forcing the issue.
Even if he proposes marriage, and maintains the idea that he does not have to continue to work on showing her his appreciation out of the bed too, it will not work.
It does not cost anything to listen, help around the house, have a sense of humor and dish out a few compliments - let her know you still care, even if she is not in the mood. Being courteous and respectful might gain her affections again, but it is hard once this is lost.
Never ever, should a man take it for granted that after the chase all he has to do is sit back and expect her to be romantic at the drop of a hat.
'I buy the food, pay the bills, etc' just does not work anymore. There are women who get paid to perform like that and can turn their feelings off - if that's all a man cares for.
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