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    Jun 14, 2013, 08:13 AM
    Girlfriend confused about what to do because I have kids.
    I have dated this woman for over six months. She knew I had kids from the beginning and loves my kids and is very great with them. She calls me out of the blue to tell me she didn't know if she could fully help me with my kids and that wasn't fair to me and she need some time to think about carrying the relationship on because she is afraid that her attitude might change once we moved in. And didn't want to have to ask me and my kids to leave to if it didn't work out. She still texts me daily to say good morning and goodnight and that she loves me. What is going on? How should I take this and how much time do I give her to make up her mind?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jun 14, 2013, 08:29 AM
    She isn't ready for a full time family situation so keep dating and see what happens. Its only been 6 months and how long you stay together is up to you. Appreciate her honesty.
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