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girlfriend can't get over the fact that she's not my first

Asked Jul 23, 2011, 07:36 PM — 11 Answers
I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years now. But she can't get over the fact she is my 6th girlfriend this may sound childish but she always feels number 6. I was her first boyfriend, and feels insecure about herself. Its sweet that she wants me "all for herself" but this keeps destroying beautiful moments. How do I make her feel special? And how would she get over my 5 exes?

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Aug 3, 2011, 08:55 PM
Really?

I've had a few girlfriends, a few boyfriends. Does that make me promiscuous? No. Does that make me a player? No. Does it mean I am enjoying myself and the company of others? Yes. You don't have to marry the first person you date buddy. Dating is to make mistakes and have fun while you find that one person. More often than not, a person who does not experience "playing the field" grows resentful and ends up breaking off the committed relationship to experience it.
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Aug 3, 2011, 11:43 PM
Just to add to the advice already given, why not do something together you have never done before, something fun, go to an outside concert, bungy jump,try a new food, at 18 and 20 there are a lot of first experiencess yet to come.
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