Well 1st of all we were together for 15 months, me and my girlfriend for a middle frame about 3 months around the 8th month were going through ups and downs, and we got through it and continued our relationship. The reasons we had ups and downs was because one of her friends was lying to her saying I was making out with other girls and dancing with other girls, which I was not and my girlfriend found that out and eventually stopped talking to that girl. Months passed and I heard my girlfriend was cheating on me. Me being dumb accused her of a lot of things, which led to me mistreating her badly by not even talking to her for a few weeks, ignoring her for the hockey games and what not until she was forced to break up with me. We continued to talk though as friends, to the point where we wanted to continue the relationship, and on the weekend we were going to have a date. We were going to go out to the movies on the Saturday night. The Friday night before that I went clubbing, and had danced with a girl, and my girlfriend had gotten mad and called off the date, and I really want her back, I don't know what to do. I've tried apologizing, but she said her trust is on a thin line and doesn't want to risk getting back together, and she said she needs space, and we haven't talked for a few days

Sounds to me you 2 don't have any trust issues. Without it you have not established any good foundation on your relationships. And why would you be dancing with any girls in the club if your trying to get back with your ex. Give her space and let her clear her mind, and that would give you some time to also think about the situation. If you do decide to get back together, what would be different? IF nothing is being change then you 2 will end up in square one. Give her time and let her think that's the best thing you can do right now, the more you call the more you beg the more you will end up pushing her away.

Thanks for the advice, but how will I know whens the right time to ask her what were going to do

She doesn't want to risk getting back together you said-so you leave it up to her-IF she wants to get in touch that is.

Meanwhile you carry on with your life doing your own thing.

You both sound very young, and insecure, so maybe it's a good thing you're not together. Leave her alone, and enjoy dancing with the girls, without her lip sticking out, and her girlfriends making a big deal of you partying, and having fun without her.

Sounds like a small circle of friends, and activities you have, if they are always able to see what you're doing, and report back. UGH!! To many people in your business, will never work.