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Girlfriend attacked me this week. Should I break up?
I need some advice here. My g/f and I have been through a crazy 4 years. It has been a cycle of break up, get back together for those years and when we are apart its no longer than a week.
Well my g/f has been nagging, disrespecting me, and treating me like a doormat. Due to this On Saturday March 8, I left her apt upset and went home to have PEACE. So my friends call and ask if I want to go to a club. I go to the club, and my g/f is blowing my phone up. so I tell her im still at home, just watching tv and im staying home. I did this as I wanted to have a peaceful night with my friends.
So long story short, I get home at like 330am coming from the club, and she parks her car outside my home. As soon as i pull up she gets out her car and starts swinging punching me in the face numerous times, destroyed the mirror in my rental car, and attacked me with a bat. My face is swollen, my lips are VERY big and swollen due to this.
So my brother comes outside and told her to go home. So she leaves. my family heard about it because I didnt know I had my uncle on speed dial while this was going on. They seem to think I should make a police report or press charges, but I dont think I need to.
So i called my g/f (now x) on Sunday and told her that was uncalled for and that she needs to apologize. so then she says "well those lips that got busted shouldve been the lips that lied to me."
Now i am a weight lifter and a prof boxer, i didnt want to hit her back because shes a girl and also one hit in her face from me, she'd probably be in a coma. s
What do u guys think? Now i have been supporting this girl financially, and talks to me like im an idiot which is why i left saturday in the first place. Now i know lying was not the best thing to do, but should it have called for this? Should I even bother to call her back ever again?
yeah i slipped and call her today to tell her good luck on her job interview....then she said "did u cheat on me" and I said no because I didn't. And she said, whatever it doesnt even mater anymore you still lied....
so i told her "well im just wishing u good like nothing more, nothing less. I'll talk to you later I guess"
blue...For whatever reason you are helping her abuse you. Contacting her and not pressing charges on her, just told her hey I'm willing to be your "punching bag" Yeah, you could keep hanging with her and fight back you could probably kick her a$$. BUt then you would be just as bad as she is. What if she goes crazy when your sleeping or decides to use a car,gun as her choice of weapon next time. Just because you are a man does not make you immune from domestic violence nor does it mean that you have to be tough and accept it. Read these links you will find your not alone.men and domestic violence
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835,000 battered men each year, silent too Long...
I meant that it's apparent that he isn't taking anyone's advice on this site. After reading some posts that he made I can clearly see that he cares more about loving the girl then her abusing him.
Ex: After posting this question and getting some responses, the OP then says that he called the girl and tried to work things out when everyone was telling him to leave the crazy woman in the first place.
Catch my drift?
I'm not saying it's right but that's how it seems.
I should have made my agreement clear, as in abuse, the victims think there in love, but they don't even love themselves. That's why they stay. Sorry 'bout that.
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