Hi, i have a girlfriend whose 27 years old and i'm 26. I'm feeling uncomfortable with her being friends with a guy friend that she was considering settling down with before she met me.
I've talked to her about it and she says it's not fair for me to ask her to not be friends with her guy friend that she was thinking of settling down with because her claims he's a good friend and that's it.
She says their just friends and that she never felt anything for him but though about settling down with him cause she couldn't find anyone to settle down with that was nice to her so she though about him cause he treated her good. I know she felt feelings for him before cause i saw her flirting on myspace with this guy before she met me.
This guy friend lives in las vegas and my girlfriend and i went to las vegas with a bunch of her other friends. She said she didn't want all of us to met up with this guy friend of hers because it would have made me feel uncomfortable.
So the next week or so she goes to this batcheloret party in las vegas with her girlfriends and calls him and talks to him, which i was very upset about. She said she called him to ask him if he could get her and her friends into a club.
I don't know
She insists on having this guy as a friend and says that i'll be the reason for her losing a good friend.
She was about to settle down with this guy like just before she met me. She says i changed all that.
Can anyone help or give advice on this matter.
Am i wrong for feeling this way?
Should she still be friends with this guy and call him up?
Maybe in the future should she go hangout with him in vegas while i'm in california?
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