im thinking of emailing my ex boyfriend to see if we could try our relationship one more time. My friends are mostly telling me to forget him, but i cant without knowing if theres still a chance for us.
if i dont ask il never know, wat should i do?
Im scared

Romefalls19

I have a few questions...

1. How old are the both of you?
2. How long were you together?
3. How long have you guys been broken up?
4. What was the reason for the break up?

Miss Sparkle

1. im 19, he's 20
2.we were together 16 months
3.we've been apart for nearly 3 months
4.he said he couldnt commit and hes not good enough for me

ISneezeFunny

well. need more info.

how long were you two together before? was it good? why'd you guys break up? how'd you guys break up? how long have you two been broken up? is there someone else in the picture for either of you?

ISneezeFunny

damn. a lil late.

hope you know the whole "i can't commit" and "i'm not good enough for you" is the male version of "i need more time" and "i have to wash my hair"

Romefalls19

I don't think I would so much e-mail him to ask for another chance, does he ever make any contact with you? You don't want to come off as desperate and I fear that's how he would take it if you e-mailed him asking for another chance. And to go along with ISneezeFunny..I can't commit sometimes also means...I can't commit to you

DMBacoustic

Rome and ISneeze are right. If the right person comes along, no matter who you are you will be ready to commit if that opportunity comes along. If you HAVE to ask so it clears you're head, maybe you shouldnt email him JUST to ask him that. Im sure you could figure out a way to just talk to him and gradually find this out.

ISneezeFunny

you can ask. but don't expect anything. by asking, you could put yourself back to day 1 of the breakup if he doesn't say what you want to hear....

in fact, he could even tell you that he's with someone else. are you ready to hear that?

DMBacoustic

That is true, even though 3 months has passed, getting something you didnt want to hear could put you back into day one. Besides if he is wondering the same thing I'm sure he would approach you about it. It really depends on who did the breaking up. If he broke up with you DO NOT ask him that. If thats the case it was his decision to end it, so don't waste anymore of your time on him. Live life for yourself.

talaniman

Quit jumping from guy to guy, and back again.

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search....archid=2257022

Get yourself together, and enjoy being single, and happy for a change. You don't need a man for that, but you do need to love yourself, more than you do and see what your doing to yourself.