Girl I like has boyfriend but I think she likes me back

talaniman · Mar 31, 2012, 11:26 PM

Flirtatious doesn't mean she wants to cheat on her boyfriend. Maybe thats her way of being friendly. You just can never know, but you do know what you take as encouraging signals may not be what you think.

Rain909 · Apr 1, 2012, 11:26 AM

Maybe she dosnt have a boyfriend but she likes someone else and knows she might have a chance with that person, but don't give up she may come back

Obanite331 · Apr 1, 2012, 02:14 PM

Well, she must be a very friendly person with everyone if your theory's right! I will look around, but I'm gonna stay close friends with her as well.

Obanite331 · Apr 25, 2012, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Flirtatious doesn't mean she wants to cheat on her boyfriend. Maybe thats her way of being friendly. You just can never know, but you do know what you take as encouraging signals may not be what you think.

Well, my gut told me otherwise and there were a few signs I got that I couldn't quite explain that had alarm bells ringing and they do say its the small things that are often the most significant... However, obviously the ball is in her court now and I am trying to look around, although that may take a while since I'm probably not going to meet many girls long enough to get to know them for a while...You must understand that while your advice is quite right it may occasionally be more complex in real life.

mmresd · Apr 25, 2012, 11:36 AM

It doesn't matter, you need to respect the relationship and leave her alone.

Obanite331 · Apr 25, 2012, 01:56 PM

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It doesn't matter, you need to respect the relationship and leave her alone.

Leave her alone? And I never said I didn't respect the relationship. I was just pointing out that things aren't always so straightforward and won't change overnight in either direction.

talaniman · Apr 25, 2012, 02:58 PM

Trust me, the facts will outweigh the feelings.

Obanite331 · Apr 25, 2012, 03:27 PM

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Trust me, the facts will outweigh the feelings.

Well, I hope someone better comes along soon then if that's the case, from my past experiences that's the only way I can ever truly move on.

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Originally Posted by Rain909

Maybe she dosnt have a boyfriend but she likes someone else and knows she might have a chance with that person, but don't give up she may come back

I think she does have a boyfriend though, I don't think she'd lie to me. I guess there are so many possible answers to this - what my gut and brain are saying is much the same but you will always get people who perfectly reasonably suggest it just isn't worth the hassle and that you move on immediately.

talaniman · Apr 25, 2012, 03:37 PM

Its always been my experience that the easiest way to move on is to always have a life that you already are happy with. Then you are never dependent on having a female to be happy with yourself. That what keeps you from being stuck rather easily, attached really fast, or give your heart to a stranger that doesn't deserve it, or knows what to do with it.

You will always have your own thing to so, and be very careful who you share it with. You will never fall for BS because you are lonely, or bored, or just plain alone. You will be very able to remove yourself from bad situations, and adjust to whatever reality throws at you.

Girl I like has boyfriend but I think she likes me back

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