so there is this girl i like. we talk alot online but at school shes more shy about starting a conversation. i think she likes me too. shes just waiting for me to make a move..should i just go for it and ask her out or should i wait. shes also kinda busy with sport outside school just like me but how should i approach this. its not that im affraid of asking her, im just affraid i might be making the move to early..

girls have anything to add??

Tommyp!972

dude,if you are both into sports you should ask her to come see you at your sport and you goto hers...tell her if she ever gets bored you got a game she could come to or ask if she wouldn't mind if you drop by a practice or 2 because you got some time to kill or if you get out of practice around the same time see if she needs a ride home if its ok with her parents or get your parents to give you a ride home.....talking online makes stuff so much easier i wish that stuff was around back when i was in school...but i must be doin ok because im still with my girl since '89 in high school..start this relationship or friendship with something you both have in common and are comfortable talking about...SPORTS...good luck bro

s_cianci

The next time you talk to her online just ask her if she'd like to get together for a pizza or a movie the following weekend. There's nothing wrong with doing that and her answer will cue you as to where she's coming from. If she's a bit shy as you suggest then that may be just what she needs to encourage her to open up a little more.

fredg

Hi,
Welcome to this site, and thank you for asking a question here.
Ask her out.
Online communications are great, but they really don't mean anything until you are face-to-face with the person.
Talk with her in person, and as another said, just simply ask if she wants to go out to eat, or a movie, or even watch a movie sometime at your place or hers.
Don't be afraid she is "too busy". If she wants to go with you, she will.
I do wish you the best of luck.

gaia213

Right im a guy just to tell well my popularity amongs the girls is HUGE belive me
although in my love situation theres only 1 girl i like but its not like im telling anything or such well lets say im extremely shy but how about this i got 2 options:

1.E-mail her and ask short and straight
well that depends on you like:

Hey want to go and have lunch at this place?

Send me back a message

2.This isnt that sure but you can pretend you are someone else like make a new e-mail
that is one of her friends and ask who do you like of course she cant know its you in that case or can she?Find you when you try!

zooropa1985

buddy we only live once, i had a major crush on this girl i highschool, lasted 5 years, you know what i did about it...nothing and i really really regret that.

The problem was i was so into her that the fear of rejection was too much, it was always better to have false hope than no hope. Sadly the time came and passed and to this day (im 21 now) i still wonder if maybe she would have said yes.

Go for it my friend, least then you can rest assured you took your chance.

gaia213

Theres only one thing to say if i cant force myself now ive decided that il force myself at the end so if shel say no then i simplt will not have to live with it or regret it everyday

cissy0801

sure i will be greatful.

in this case, you have to sort of show that you like her so that you're sure she likes you.

some moves are:

you keep on staring at her
do silly things to impress her
always has a reason to be near her
talk funny around her

so she get's the idea that you like her then she'll be more confident
plus also, it's never to early to tell someone you like them
most people aren't afraid of time but afraid of saying it to the person

plus, one last helpful tip. girls are like mobile fones. they love to be held, they love to be talked but if you press the wrong button, you'll be disconnected... (plus girls are emotional breakers so watch out)

GOOD LUCK!