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Old Oct 18, 2009, 09:50 PM
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my girl developed feeling for someone else! what should ido.

there is the most beautiful girl in this planet. i love her so passionally that i will die for her. i play baseball and i go to the same school she goes to. one thing happened ... i dont have as much time as i used to have to spend with her. becasue the mentioned reasons. now she started developing feelings for a different guy which is a "friend" she supposedly met in one of her classes. i love her so much that i will even kill my self ... i have try so hard for more than 3 days to see what i did wrong she replies to me that she loves me. that she loves me and will never forget about me. but she is still talkin to this guy and i dont know what to do....... i dont want to lose her .... should i do something to the guy.... what should i doo please .... help me .... i will die if i dont get help quick.........

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Old Oct 24, 2009, 10:10 PM   #31  
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I went through a hard patch like this a while ago. I know how you feel. The thing with me was that started taking days off work. I didn't feel like doing anything. Mind you for me it was a brake up. If you feel that you are having these thoughts. I would suggest you go see a medical doctor. A friend of mine took me when she saw I was so down. They understand because we are not the only ones to have felt anxiety like this. Go see one as soon as possible. They will be able to prescribe something mild that will help you deal better with this.
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Old Oct 25, 2009, 05:16 AM   #32  
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I want my girlfriend back. But everyone. Is against me

As expected she is thw love of my life. I did everything i could do for a week to get her back .. Bit i think she was seeing me for pity. She says she loves me. But that. She is interested. In that guy she just me. She also says that. She loves me a lot but. I have to give her time. And i told her to stop seeing. Everyone. Or the other guy too so she can think .... She told me that. She was not. But i know she will she hides text messages from her and her cousing are pushing her Away from me. It feels. Like everyone is my enemy what. Can i do to get her back. ?? I love her i dont want to lose her
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Old Oct 25, 2009, 06:45 AM   #33  
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Alex you ve already been given a lot of good advice regarding this situation-will you please read it again?
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Old Oct 25, 2009, 06:56 AM   #34  
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Don't look for someone else to love you. Look for what you love about yourself and if you find that you are happy within, you will notice that she probably doesn't deserve you. If you are reading this and saying that it is a bunch of bull, then you are not happy with yourself and you will rarely be happy with someone else. Figure out what it is that you don't like about you and realize that it is not too late to change. LOVE YOU and she will be begging you to let her back.
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should i sent my exgirlfriend flowers after she is started talking to another guy

i love this girl and would like to get back with her...... but i haven't talked to her for a week she said that she needed space ... before she told me that i bought some flowers which i haven't sent to her .. should i send it to he i love her .. so much i want her back in my life .. .some advice ???
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is this the same girl you think is pregnant?

your girlfriend?

or is it someone else?
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She asked for space,so no flowers.
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Leave her alone buddy!!!! And your threads have been merged but the next one on the same subject will be deleted. No need to start new questions when you can post on this thread.
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Leave her alone buddy!!!! And your threads have been merged but the next one on the same subject will be deleted. No need to start new questions when you can post on this thread.
Jeez! If iIwas 'his girl' I'd be running for the hills. No wonder she wants space!
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i love this girl and would like to get back with her...... but i haven't talked to her for a week she said that she needed space ... before she told me that i bought some flowers which i haven't sent to her .. should i send it to he i love her .. so much i want her back in my life .. .some advice ???
You are slowly but surely becoming the boyfriend every girl fears, the stalker, the desperate pathetic guy that won't take "go away" for an answer.

You want her back but you're doing everything in your power to drive her away.

You say that you want her back in your life, that you love her so much. What about her? She has wants too, and she doesn't want you.

Back off, go to no contact. If she comes back then you can try again, if she doesn't then you'll eventually find someone else to love.

After reading all your posts I have to say, this isn't love, this is obsession and it's getting out of hand.

You need to get some help.

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talaniman agrees: You got one good point there, I agree, this is going to far!
qerp32 agrees: Pretty much sums it up.
Cat1864 agrees: At best, she's a user (his credit card) and he's a stalker. Not a good combination.
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