I'll just start off with some background of myself and her and get into what is happening, that way you have the full story.

This girl that i have been dating for 2 1/2 months is 18. She only had 1 other boyfriend other then myself and he ended up using her to go out with her friend. She also takes things slow.

I'm 19 and have been in 2 other relationships and 1 that almost happened but i got played pretty hard. My last girlfriend ended up cheating on me.

Now here is what is happening. When we first went out, we used to talk all the time and say that we miss eachother and everything...really couldn't of been any better. Now it's like...when we do things...things are awsome, but on the phone or internet she seems distracted or not even interested in me anymore. Doesn't give me the "i miss you" deal or any type of affection and i usually have to start any conversation. I don't know if this is because she lost interest in me, or possibly just playing games, i don't have a clue. This is a pretty conservative girl so doing things with another guy and all that stuff is pretty much out of the question. I dunno what's going on and maybe i'm just taking it wrong.

turtlegirl

Pretend you do not have a phone. Be strong!!

sphyncx

i've been talking to one of her friends lately...and she said something like..."things would prolly be better if i was friends with her friends"

not like i never said i wouldn't...she just never really gave me any chances to do so. so i figure i'd start doing so. bad idea? i don't think so.