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Mar 10, 2006, 06:36 PM
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ok so what if this girl says that shes kinda busy with sport for awhile and doesnt think shes ready for a Bf now. but says she loves talking to me and tells me that im nice.what do i do.
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Mar 10, 2006, 06:55 PM
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#2
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Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: looking for my pants
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| respect what she says as true
she may be just trying to let you down easy, but she may not. it could very well be shes got enough on her plate and a bf just isnt a top priority.
if you liked her enough to ask her out, you should like her enough to be a friend |
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Mar 10, 2006, 09:01 PM
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#3
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Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: CANADA
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| Be cool, talk, act normally but do not push the subject. If you push wanting more even though the other party wants to focus on the sports. You could push that person completely away, no more friends. There is a fine line but all means when the time is there just enjoy it.
Joe | |
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Mar 11, 2006, 04:57 AM
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#4
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Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: SouthWest Virginia
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| Hi,
You have some good answers already.
She said she loves "talking" with you. She is not "in love" with you, but does want to be friends.
What do you do? Either accept her as a friend, treat her with respect and caring as one does for a friend, or move on and don't talk with her anymore.
Best of luck, and hang in there. Life shows us that we don't always get everything we want, and for us to be happy with what we do have. | |
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Mar 11, 2006, 09:58 AM
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#5
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Join Date: Jan 2005
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| She may need some time to think about it. Like I've said in other posts - some people just aren't ready for a relationship at a certain. It has a lot to do wit htiming.
My advice would be to keep your options open. Talk with her - BUT, look for other wonmen. Date others. | |
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Mar 11, 2006, 06:49 PM
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#6
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Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Eastern Seaboard - USA
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| Keep talking to her and being nice just like you've been doing without putting any kind of pressure on her. She may eventually have a change of heart. I can't make any promises but you've got nothing to lose by hanging in there, being patient and adopting a wait-and-see attitude. | |
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Mar 12, 2006, 10:17 AM
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#7
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Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Space Is The Place
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| Whats wrong with just being her friend? talk laugh hang out,enjoy each others company, but don't stop living your life or let your friendship stop you from enjoying other females,No matter what she decides to do you have an obligation to yourself to make sure your happy!  | |
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Jun 13, 2007, 08:00 AM
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#8
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 40
| Dude this exact thing is happening to me right now..
the girl i am talking to is playing sports and all and she is really busy
we txt like all the time and she says she really loves talking to me because it makes her feel good
what do i do
its summer and she wants to go to the movies this friday | |
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