there is this guy that i really like. he told me he wants to be friends until i get out of high school, then we'll see what happens. he's in college. i emailed him back and said that he was right, i needed to focus on school, and that i would see him in church whenever i'm able to go again. so i pretty much told him i didnt want nothing to do with him and if i happened to run into him at church i'd say hi. but i said it in a nicer way. i really like him allot, and while i act like i dont care when we talk on the phone and email each other, it drives me insane. i dont want to tell him because well, i dont think he'll feel the same. but when im at home i always think about him, everything reminds me of him. even my floor. and no not like that. i hate listening to the radio because something always comes on that reminds me of him. i'm literally going insane without him.he had to come up to my school yesterday to talk to us about his college there was this feeling i got, i wanted to disappear.but im caught up in him, and i need help advice, the crap knocked outta me something,because i d k what to do.

Lady J

I Think You Should Tell Him How You Feel And If He Dont Feel The Same Well It Was Worth Trying. But The Only Way You Will Feel Better Is If You Get It Off Your Chest

Homegirl 50

I think you need to pay very close attention to what he said. "to be friends until i get out of high school, then we'll see what happens" He is respecting the fact that you're still in HS. No matter what you feel, I think you need to also respect his decision.
When you are out of school, then you'll see what happens.
Just continue to be nice when you talk on the phone or see each other at church. Don't make this anymore difficult for the both of you than it needs to be.

talaniman

Your in to deep, and making to much of him, like and obsessive crush, since he is doing nothing to lead you on. Your leading yourself on and need to stop and get healthy by doing normal high school stuff and enjoy hanging with friends. You are living in a fantasy of your own making.

statictable

He sounds like he's level headed and gave you some good advice. If his advice has in it's self worked you into a frenzy then you will have to ask yourself a few questions. Do I think smart and wait to see what the future brings? Do I think from my heart and tell him how I feel? Do I think from other's experiences and move forward with caution? If you trust yourself and him then be sure to let him know that your comfortable with his request and also how you feel about him. PS What is the age dif.?