hi all,...
i need a bit of advice with a little trust problem im having at the moment, my boyfriend completly trusted me n it took him so long to learn to trust me. what happended was last nyt he caught me smokin in his bedroom, but the first time he asked me wat i did i lied and i sed that i tried to smoke it, n then this murnin he asked to see the fag i tried to light, n kus i cudnt find it as soon as he left the room i lit a fag n put it in my box. n then agen wen i got home he asked me about 3 times, to tell him the truth, but i was soo scared and soo embarrased i cudnt, but after he asked me 3 times i eventually told him the truth and now he says he wont ever b able to trust me again. please help, all advice is appreciated. thank you

chuff

Advice tip number 1. Write real words that is ridicules. We are not 2 year olds so don't talk like one.

Advice tip number 2. Don't lie.

Advice tip number 3. Aplogize for lying and explain that you will try to regain the trust again.

Advice tip number 4. Don't lie again.

slapshot_oi

wat

Ya, don't lie. It's pretty simple.

I wish

The thing that really broke his trust is that fact that you lied and not so much the smoking part.

Own up to your mistakes, accept the consequences and earn back his trust.

talaniman

You don't have to lie about smoking, and as a smoker, I understand, but never lie about it, and don't make promises you can't keep, because non-smokers don't care, or understand, what your going thru.

Promise to not smoke in the bedroom, or house or whatever, and stick to it, but also tell him to bug the freak off, your trying.

Good Luck, it ain't easy, but you can do it.