i am really in a tough situation.

i used to go to school with this girl and we were nothing more than acquantances.. not even friends.. high school came around and i grew a little closer into a friend.

shes the type of girl thats not a drinker and someone who you would want to keep. I took her to homecoming last year and i think she had a good time. but this year, my best friends all have girlfriends and when we go out im in a really akward position cuz my friends are all with a girl and im just "friends" with some.

its really hard to get a hold of this girl, sometimes she doesn't get texts and shes never online, i hope shes not ignoring me but thing is i'm really starting to love her mroe and more everyday, even though i dont see her.

i want to ask her out but i dont want to ruin myh relatinoship with her and her parents (cuz they like me too). i dont know what to do, should i call her and tell her my felings or try and plan a day (which is impossible cuz she's always so busy) and then ask her if she likes anyone.

she was over a few days ago and someone said we were a cute couple, even though we werent, and she said we were like brothers and i dont know what way to take that, could this ever work out?

thanks

basketb23

she messaged me while i was online, and it was my friends idea for all of us to hang out.. the favor thing isn't gonna happen now, was just putting the idea out to see what you guys thought.. taking that back now ..aiight didn't say anything to anyone about that yet so i have nothing to worry about there

beautifuldiva

lol ok good! That prolly wouldnt be the best idea.. numerous things could go wrong in that situation, the most embarrassing being her finding out about that! Just wait a lil longer, ask her out have fun, bring it up in a convo and tell her what u feel... just talk to her about it. But talk to HER about it YOURSELF lol I'm sure she would appreciate that better

basketb23

ya. the group we going w/ sat is my friends gf's friends ( i met a few weeks ago.. cool group) + she goes to school w/ lot of them but never met em so gonna introduce em so hopefully it'll be f un.. i hope she doesn't feel uncomfortable cuz of friend/his gf and the way they act.. it can mean 2 things.. she can either see their relationship (cuz they have a fun one) as a cool one and want one too or just be upset that invited her knowing this.. i dont think she'll be upset.. their relationship was the one tha tmade get gain interest in this girl cuz i saw how much fun they were having lol

Gillion

Do not beat yourself too hard we all make mistakes in life and that is how we learn.

talaniman

i talked to her yesterday online, and we planned a thing w/ a few of my friends and their girlfriends.. she seems cool w/ it. to answer ur questino of mentioning another guy i dont think shes gone out before, and to tell u truth As Gillion says, not a good idea to play games and involve everyone else. Glad you changed your mind. I would also lower expectations of how she reacts to the settings you take her too. The point is to show her a good time and have fun. Relax and just make sure she can too. Your idea to impress her with what has impressed you will surely back fire. But if you be cool and be yourself, that is what will impress her the most. Being with you and having a really good time.

basketb23

"impress her with what has impressed you will surely back fire"

nah shes met my 2 best friend and shes cool w/ them so thats not what i was trying to make a point too.. just saying what i had planned haha.. i dont plan on impressing her w/ my friends