NC, IM and the EX: Block or Happy Away Messages

matt1231 · #1 Nov 19, 2007, 10:19 PM

Instant Messaging
There's quite a few people on here that use it. So what is recommended for NC? For either good or bad terms? I want the ex back

>Buddy Delete - so I cant see them but they can see me and I LOOK AVAILABLE (i will continue to be myself and leave happy and content away messages

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>Buddy Block - so they cant see me, I LOOK UNAVAILABLE and maybe potentially discover i have blocked them?

I just always thought blocking someone was childish...

needofhelp · Nov 19, 2007, 11:33 PM

Looks like you've answered your own question. NC means you do not contact your ex. NC does not mean that it will get your Ex back. NC is a way for you to heal with minimal or no reminders of your Ex.

Seems like your Buddy Delete is the option you are leaning toward.

Good luck....



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