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my girlfriend says she loves me has feelings for someone else
me and my girl have been goin on for 5 weeks now and she said she loves me, weve talked about marridge and life together after highschool and picked out kids names. i thought we had it perfect and we were destined for each other but last night i learned she has feelings for her ex who dumped her after 4 days of goin out and is now engadged to someone she hates and her exs fiancee has a kid. this seems like like a real simple choice to me, and i tell her that but she tells me that she is just confused and sorry i dont know what to do and she's stoped saying she loves me but says all the thing in the notes shes written are true, please some advice the ex she has feeling for is marring someone
Hate to be the voice of reason but if she's marrying somone else then your relationship is over...not that it was ever really started you were only dating for 5 weeks. Your in high school...HELLO!!!!!.... she's still a kid, and it's kind of stupid to base a relationship off of 5 weeks. My second thought is that she never really even liked you let alone loved you, otherwise she wouldn't have been so keen to drop you an say that she's marrying someone else.
Why not wait until after high school and find a person who's mature enough to know what love really is? Just an idea.
Your in high school and you dated this chick for less then 2 months, this is called "puppy love." Why do you want to be with her when she obviously wants somebody else? It doesn't matter that her ex is getting married or not, she does not want you as her boyfriend. Shes young and immature and probably confused but I get the feeling you might be too. I suggest you forget about this girl and find somebody else who will be good to you and not play games with your head.
She still has feelings and has not gotten over the ex, so its time to back off, and let her deal with her issues without you. Basically your her rebound, and that seldom works out. Sorry. 5 weeks is not a lot of time, so chalk it up, and move on!
Sorry but this doesn't seem serious at all..5 weeks and youre talking about marriage and kids? .. and she went out with a guy for 4 days and she's confused about still loving him?
She fell in love with a guy in 4 days and wants to be with him? Then you talk about marriage and kids...then she tells you that shes confused about the ex?
This is the kind of girl you believe you're destined to be with?
Slap yourself in the face mate. You're both coming off as immature - I can understand that, teenage relationships can get exciting, but you're jumping the gun a little bit..
Theres alot more girls out there than you think - this is a no-brainer just give up on her.
sorry...too many he's marrying her and she hates him...and yadie yadie ya.......
Either way I agree with what other people have said who ever is getting married is still a kid if they're in high school.
Furthermore, if she has feelings for someone else she still dosen't like you, reguardless of if she's getting married (which I just realized she's not) or not.
I love you is just a phrase it dosen't mean anything, unless you mean it to..anyone and there brother can say it and have it not mean anything...just something to think about.
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