FiancŽ gave ring back

Well I don't really see why she would give you back the ring and tell you to get it cleaned... I wouldn't do that...I would proudly wear the ring and go take it to get cleaned myself...I don't know....Have you guys argued or anything lately? Can you think of anything that has been done or said to make her upset?

Oh ok I seen where you two had a fight but how serious was the fight? Was it a petty little fight? Maybe she's just being stubborned

Ok... Sorry... I forget you are new on here...

We've been arguing about ridiculous stuff for a while... She always brings up past things that aren't much of an issue now... She is constantly in a negative mood... She works too much..... Now with all that said, there are brief glimpses into what we had, but it always comes before the storm of arguing.... We are very different people... I'm a city guy that enjoys playing on the computers, local sports, sex, and emotion and conversation.... She is a countr gitl that enjoys horses, the opposing team I like in local sports, minimal sex, and shows little emotion in our conversations....

I tell her she always appears to want to get into it over something, argue, or be in a bad mood... I hate it... I'm always trying to cheer her up, say or do something for her to make her smile... I love her, but don't know if we are at an end because of this... She doesn't seem to see herself as the problem maker, she doesn't see her depression... I am not perfect, but I've caused relatively few problems in our relationship (contrary to her beliefs I guess)...

Well I use to be like that.. I use to start arguments all the time just to make the other person not to be around me....I figured if I did that then he would then call it quits... But nope that didn't work it just made him want to be around me more...that's when I had to call it quits....It sounds like she is stressed and needs somet ime to relax....AND WHEN THE PAST IS BROUGHT UP THAT REALLY SUCKS! That's what my "boyfriend" not at the present time...does to me...We can argue about something then all of a sudden something that happened 2 months ago is thrown into the situation..I just sit there like where did that come from... For some people its hard to forget about the past....Some people can't move on..

Wow. Suddenly my issues seem really unimportant lol. It seems to me like she doesn't know what she wants. I just don't see the point of giving you the ring "to clean it" though if she wants to break up. If she wanted to end it, I think she just tell you when she gave you the ring instead of making up a silly excuse unless she's really afraid of confrontation. I hope it works out for you. It sounds like you really love her.

So what do you think she is going to do tonight when she calls? Break up with me, put our engagement on hold but stay together, just talk? Now on my side, I DO love her... I am not happy though.. She hasn't been giving me what I want or need in the relationship for months now... She has said some sweet things over the time we've been together, as well as done sweet things, but she (at the end of the fight) compared me to an abusive boyfriend of her past.... She also said, I made her feel forced into sex because I want to make love to her at least 3 times a week... We've been averaging 2 times a MONTH! I've been with her for 1yr 6mo.... Engaged 6mo

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