I feel it too early for sex...

dont believe in horoscope, god didnt say anything about any zodiac sign.. those are all written by humans.. dont go that far with him, it's just been one month.. i'm just saying this because usually guys use girls like this, they convince you so beautifully that you think he's different from other guys and ****. every guy has his own technique of fooling a girl to have sex with him.. i'm not saying that this guy is cheating on you, i'm just warning you so that you wont have to regret later that you trusted him.. having sex shouldn't be everything to a guy. if you see that he's trying to get physical more when compared to taking care of you, understand that he's using you for sex. you're a girl and having sex is a very big thing and having sex with some guy who just came into your life is not the right thing.. only the man who's been made for you, your husband, has the right to have sex with you. not some guy who don't even properly know. don't let him use you. just keep observing what matters much to him, loving and taking care of you(like your health, your appetite and every small and big thing), or having sex(which you must understand by the way he's talking to you, like if he's trying to make you want him and if he's talking about all those things which will make you fall for sex). just see what he's talking about the most. see if he's worthy of everything you're gonna do for him.. learn him, and don't let him think that he can have you easily. make it very tough for him and test him, if he's really fallen in love with you, he'll go through everything. if it's just for sex. he'll show his true colors.. take your own time in learning him there's no hurry.. sex lasts only for minutes. love lasts forever.. it's in your hands to choose what you want

Thank you, imfkdup!
This is an extremely enlightening answer, I will follow your advice.

i wish you best luck

lemon, how old are you? How old is he? How many times have you met in person?

You should never feel forced or coerced into doing something that isn't right for you. You should also not play games or give your 'boyfriend' tests to see if he loves you.

Be honest with your boyfriend that you feel things are moving too fast. Relationships that are primarily long distance take longer to develop than those where the partners see each other more often. It may seem like it is growing faster due to talking more than touching, but you aren't seeing the whole person and how that person interacts with others and the environment they are in. Spend the time you are together getting to know more about each other.

Remember that a good bit of long distance (and brand new) relationships is imagination. Your mind filling in the blanks. While you may think you 'know' him, you don't. Take time and be careful. Some predators are very patient and will wait for quite a while to get their prey. Make certain he is who he says and you think he is before making any possibly life altering decisions.

I'm 19, he's 20.

We've constantly met in person about 2 weeks, every time in completely different situations, so I had the chance to learn how he is like around other people and only around me. I'm a pretty reserved and suspicious person, I hardly trust people around me, so I have been careful with every detail, but he didn't fail in any aspect. We were both born in a small town, so people know each other and everybody is very pleased with him in all respects, I've never heard anything wrong about him or his family...

When he has to go at the university we talk quite often, but we only make small talk, rarely does he talk about himself, what he likes or what he thinks. But when he has those moments, he's amazing, he really knows how to express his feelings about something and by far, we have a lot of things in common. I just, I wish he talked more like this...Of course, I like having fun, he makes me laugh until I cry...still it doesn't help me know him that much.

I've also tried to tell him that he goes a little bit to far, but the only answer I've got is "As long as you enjoy it, nothing else matters." I do enjoy kissing and hugging, but that's all I want for the moment. I cannot stop him go further unless I take his hands off me and understands. I tend to believe that I should show him what I want rather than tell him, for he doesn't seem to understand, but how am I to do that?

Let me guess. Each time he tries to get a little bit farther before you move his hands away.

In other words, 'I am going to make you enjoy it and then when I cross the line it is your fault not mine.'

Ask yourself this: Do you trust him to stop if you don't do or say anything?

Do you want control over what happens to your body or is part of your thought pattern that someday you won't say anything and just let him have his way? If that thought is anywhere in your brain, make certain you are on birth control and that you know for certain he is clean of any and all sexually transmitted diseases or infections.

While in small towns everyone pretty much knows everyone else, sometimes people do hide secrets that others don't find out about until too late. What he does when he is away may be a lot different than the person you think you are coming to know.

Sit down with him and talk about your limits and expectations. Do not continue to have make out sessions with him until he understands where your boundary line is and respects it without you making him stop.

Be careful. Be in control of your own body.

You're so right, Cat1864. You really alarmed me with this: I couldn't stand hearing this from him, so I must fix this problem as soon as possible.

I'm not sure if I let the impression that I'm careless about my body, but you can be sure that I won't let anybody take advantage of it or abuse it in any way. But I'm human and I suppose it's normal to react to touch, not that far, anyway...

Now that I've heard so many points of view, I will be more careful about his real person, although, as I've already said, I didn't notice nothing suspicious yet.

lemon, I didn't think you were careless about your body. My concern is the possibility of you getting carried away or caught up in the moment and him taking advantage. It's something that can happen to anyone especially with people they think they can trust.

I am glad you are going to be more proactive about what you want and need. Take care.

You need to have a talk with him and let him know that you are not ready for a sexual relationship. He will either understand and respect this or he won't.
It is your body and you don't have to put up with unwanted sexual advances.