i wanna know if i can change the way he loves me , knowing that he always loves to talk with me
can this change?
can we become good couple?
thx all...

Andrea Yang

hello Mray,

Greetings!
I am Andrea Yang, one of your adviser.
I just wanna say this, you better make your mind a broader one. come and think of it. Maybe he/she just want to be your friend or whatsoever dear friend.

Yes! you can change his feeling about you. just do your best and let him feel that he is a special man for you and u can give your life just for him.

just think positive!

if it will not work at all then you must accept the truth that you are both friends forver.
how can you be a good couple someday if he just want you to be his dear friend?

But, there is a possibilty that he will gonna change his feelings about you coz the hint is he treated you as his dear friend. right?

Godbless to you Mray!

Your adviser,
Andrea

Mray

Thank you Andrea very much...

ChihuahuaMomma

NO. you can make him realize how lucky he is to have you...but you cannot change how someone feels.

cissy0801

you should never change to be someone else just to win someone's feelings. because after all you're not being true to yourself. as hard as it may seem you have to realise that you've become friends with he/she because he/she like your personality and if you change it might seem really awkard.

a great example of someone trying to change for the love of a best friend is the movie my best friend's wedding.

sure julia robberts tried everything to win back her best friend in the movie and it all because disatrious but fine in the end.

you should tell him/her that you like him/her if they say no then you don't take it in so harsh because you'll always find another person.

talaniman

You cannot control the feelings of another, and even though you want more, he doesn't. The down side of talking about it is, he will know how you feel, but that may change the friendship. Risky either way.