why did she leave me

herra · #1 Nov 4, 2007, 02:53 AM

my girlfriend of 4 years left me for her friends and wild sex wee have a 1 year old toget her shes on19 and am 23 will she relaise the mistake soon or just move on

tickle · Nov 4, 2007, 02:57 AM

who takes care of the one year old, you or her ? And if its her, is she caring for the child properly. If this is the case, I would be worried that your child is well looked after.

herra · Nov 4, 2007, 03:04 AM

she takes care of the kid full time her mum baby sits every friday and lets the mum go out to do wat she does which is quickies i know shes still young but will she eventually want me back

herra · Nov 4, 2007, 04:44 AM

my girlfriend of 4 years left me last week for sex and her friends will she come back 2 me soon

s_cianci · Nov 4, 2007, 04:50 AM

Why the hack do you want her to? I'd say "bye" and good riddance. It sounds like you can do a lot better than someone who leaves after 4 years for "sex and her friends."

kp2171 · Nov 4, 2007, 04:51 AM

nobody can tell you yes or no... only her...

if you want to talk about the relationship and the breakup you need to give more details about whats going on... age, problems, breakups, etc...

again, nobody but her can decide if shell come back. provide more details and we can talk about what you should be doing for yourself.

s_cianci · Nov 4, 2007, 05:37 AM

The real question is why would you want her back?

linds03 · Nov 4, 2007, 06:19 AM

Oh my goodness!! What the hell was she thinking?! Let me tell you something: if you were smart, you would NEVER take her back! Don't do it, she doesn't deserve it! You love her...I get it. I dated my boyfriend for almost 5 years and broke up....it hurts like nothing else in this world. You don't need her, though. Why would she leave you for "sex and friends"??? Obviously there were things going on between you guys for her to do this?? It really doesn't matter...try your best to move on,man. let me ask you this-do you really want to take her back after she's satisfied sexually by other men?? Hell no! yuck! Find a nice girl who won't do that to you...and the answer is probably yes, she will try to come back to you after awhile. She'll realize what she left...but guess what? Now your in control of the situation and can make the call. Remember the no contact rule. You'll be fine. In my neighborhood we call those girls "sluts"......

linds03 · Nov 4, 2007, 12:46 PM

Raise your son to be a good person. Put all of your energy into that-he should be your focus, not her. Obviously this baby needs at least one stable parent.

herra · Nov 5, 2007, 03:31 AM

2 weeks ago my firl friend of 4 years finished it with me because her friend she hadnt seen for 3 years came back o the scene now shes out every weekend and dosnt contact me any more i think she is sleeping with some one at the moment during our time together i took her on holiday every time i had a chance done nothing but spoil her over the last 7 months wee here litarily together 24/7 as wee didnt work i kind of knew she wanted an intimate incounter with another guy will she reliase soon wat shes done or just move on she knows how much i love her



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