omg....i have two ex boyfriends and the first guy i went out with when i was 16 and turned 17 a little while when were were together for about a year and we broke up because he treated me like crap and then i started going out with this other guy and he treated me great and i was so happy and then we broke up and then i went back with the old guy and he had supposedly changed and he loves me so much and he treats me right just this past week we started fighting and he would get back in his old ways and then be so sweet again and i dont want to hurt him because he has said he would never love anyone else and the guy that was good to me was wanting me back and i want to be with him is that selfish?

happylady123

Wow, this is a lot of drama. Just be with the person you want to be with. The first guy isn't really going to change from his old ways, and trust me when he tells you, you are the only one he'll love, sorry he's b.s.ing you. Just go out with who you feel is better for you, don't worry about what the other guy will think.

margarita_momma

WOW! That is the longest sentence I have ever read!

Anyways, honestly I think you should just break up with both of them for a couple weeks and try and figure out what you want. Jumping back and forth between guys is never a good thing and it sounds like you are pretty confused as to who you want to be with. Taking a couple weeks off will also let you see which guy is the most into you and will try to get you back. Don't go running to the first one that shows you attention. Just sit back and let them show you who deserves your love and who you feel will treat you right in the end. Oh yeah, and if the first guy was a jerk and treated you like crap, he's not going to change hon. Guys like that rarely change!