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Old Feb 21, 2007, 01:40 PM
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My exboyfriend.

I miss my exboyfriend who I broke up with three weeks ago. I want him back but when I talk to him about it he's like we're better off friends. But all my friends tell me how he misses me and he recently admited that he does. But he constantly hangs around women and all over them and stuff when I'm around. He is hurting me and I want this to stop how can I make it stop?

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Old Feb 21, 2007, 01:58 PM   #2  
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<<He is hurting me >>

yes but you most probably hurt him when you broke up.
why did you break up if you want him back now??
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You broke up with him and hurt him. He may feel as though he cant trust you anymore because of what happened. Rather than stay and try and work through your problems you ran. That hurts people and he is wise to think twice about being with you again.

Give it time and see what happens i suppose. In the mean time get busy living and enjoying life!
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You broke up with him for a reason and now your jealous when you see him with other people. That is really too bad. It is out of your hands and you need to learn from this and how do i say this nicely. Leave the ex alone. You have no right to him anymore. Your hurting but like others have said you broke up with him.

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Exactly Joe.

He shouldnt have to go running back to you just because you clicks her fingers. I bet if he was at home crying in bed you wouldnt give a damn. But because he is out having a good time and getting on with life, you are jealous.

I would advise you to do the same!

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Old Feb 22, 2007, 01:53 PM   #6  
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It was a rash decision on my part, we were arguing and had been arguing for a little while and he told me that he didn't want to come with me after my senior prom to go anywhere, that he was going home. That really hurt my feelings and he had been like that for the past few months. Like, if I cried, he wouldn't even care. Just sit there and now he's like I'm not afraid to date and stuff and yeah it does make me jealous but isn't that natural? We had a long time together and now he acts as though it didn't matter at all
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I miss my exboyfriend who I broke up with three weeks ago. I want him back but when I talk to him about it he's like we're better off friends. But all my friends tell me how he misses me and he recently admited that he does. But he constantly hangs around women and all over them and stuff when I'm around. He is hurting me and I want this to stop how can I make it stop?
just stay away from him him and if he relly wants u back he would try to c u or call u
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You broke up with him to solve a problem with the relationship.

What has changed since then? Why would he want you back if your solution is to break up, rather than talk the problem out?

When you broke up with him, you basically told him that the long time you had together didn't matter as much as the current issues. Valid or not, that's what you told him. Why should he think of it any differently than you did?

If you get back together, it's on his terms. Since you chose to break up with him, he has to decide whether to take you back or not. Life doesn't give you do-overs.

As far as wanting to stop hurting... stop hanging around with him if it hurts you. Continuing to do something that hurts just isn't a good idea. Move on, and learn an important life lesson that you can use in your next relationship. The rest of us learned it the same way you just did.
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Leave this guy alone and get a life without him. If you stop contacting him and be unavailable you will have the time and space to heal, but it will take a lot of time to get all that emotion under control. There are no easy ways out.
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hi give him time see what he whats its not your fault if you didnt what be with him but how i see it all the people on here are being abit harsh on you

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Jesushelper76 disagrees: Being truthful and letting her know what happened. Is not being harsh. I am sorry if you see any of it as harsh, but the truth does hurt sometimes.
Skell disagrees: Ill take you see me as one of those people being harsh. Well i have to disagree and really wonder how you came to that conclusion!
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