My Ex Will NOT Leave Me Alone!

4answers · Mar 30, 2007, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockabilly1955mama

Thank you guys a bunch. I think i'll wait a couple of weeks. If he doesn't stop, i'll have to get a restraiing order. No if, ands, or buts about it.

Hi Rockabilly, the only way he will stop is if he realises the destructive nature of his actions and emotions both on himself and you. At present I would guess that he is torn between positive feelings of caring for you and negative emotions at your lack of responce to him. Therefore he is probably acting in a way of one minute being nice and the next being horrible.

If you are still on communication terms, follow the advice given, once he realises his actions and more importantly his emotions, you will see a different man. Part of his problem might be co dependancy.

However, that said, its his problem and you have your life to lead. As I said earlier, without more details I can't advise properly. But if you are well past the communication stage then a restraining order might be in order, or at least let him know that is where it is going.

Regards 4 answers.

(I feel for what you are going through).

sammie07 · Apr 14, 2007, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockabilly1955mama

Well, I was in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years. He cheated on me, and abused me mentally. So I let him go. I mean, seriously no woman needs to be treated in ways such as these.

Now, he will not leave me alone. He's getting to the point where he's scaring the hell out of me. He shows up to my work for no reason at all and half of the time he's drunk and blabbering about the good times.

He stalks me everywhere I seem to go. It's been going on for about 3 months now and I hate it. I've called the cops on him numerous times and he's been sent to jail.

I'm thinking about getting a restraining order from him, but is that too much? Should I just wait awhile to see if he calms down?

Please help.

NO don't DO what YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO DO AND GOOD LUCK YOU ANIT GOING TO HAPPY YILL YOU he's OUT your HAIR XX

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gypsy123 · Oct 21, 2012, 10:49 AM

17 years I have been dealing with this, it goes through ups and downs, It will never end unless you take control of your life, and let ALL your friends and family know what is happening, and ask for their support.

If you have mutual friends you cannot tell them anything about you that you don't want him to know.

You may still have some feelings for him or think you are being nice by not being" mean" but you have to cut it off, get police involved via restraining order, and do not waiver you must be persistent.

Don't be alone with him or give him any "in"...and if things get scary..

Cut off all ties, change your number, move if you have to...some people are dangerous and will never leave you alone.

I might be coming off as harsh, but seriously some people will think of you as a possession and cannot think of anything but themselves..and that can cause you a lot of harm.

My Ex Will NOT Leave Me Alone!

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