My Ex wants to spend New Year's Eve with me

vanheart · Dec 28, 2011, 10:38 PM

Have fun n New Years.

Let me know how it goes.

kalaka · Jan 29, 2012, 01:41 PM

My EX always calls me just to see how I was doing. She called me the other day just to tell me she wanted me to buy her used Galaxy phone, then asked how I was doing in the sex world. I just told her I am seeing someone and she said are you seeing someone on the bed we use to share? I just said no.

Yesterday she called me again, I was not home and she left a message and in her voice I can hear that she sounds like she misses me, and her message was I JUST CALLED TO SEE HOW YOU ARE DOING.

I called her back when I came back, but she did not pick up, sent her a SMS got no reply. Is she playing with my feelings or is she just confused about what she wants?

talaniman · Jan 29, 2012, 08:40 PM

I would say both, She is a confused player! Better stop the contact guy. Stop responding to her altogether, and you won't get your feelings played with by this confused person.

But you already know that!

kalaka · Feb 8, 2012, 09:46 PM

My ex broke up with like 3 months ago and I never wanted to our contact to break so ever since we have been in a limited contact with each other, but the last time I have been doing good that when ever she calls me I just feel sad about our break because I Loved her so much but she just decided to end it because she wanted to be with lady (BI). I have a feeling that she is becoming a little sad about the break up I Might be wrong. But My question is is too late for a No Contact after having had limited contact all this while?

She just told me today that it is not what she though because they might broke up. What should I do? Should just leave and see how things turns out? I love her and still wants to be with her so we usually have nice conversation. She even promised to call tomorrow.

friend4u178 · Feb 8, 2012, 09:58 PM

You need to stop worrying about what she's feeling , in fact what you think she's feeling , because it doesn't matter and won't do anything but make you waste energy on something you have no control over.
Never too late for No Contact , and the sooner you start the sooner you'll start to feel better.

talaniman · Feb 12, 2012, 07:26 PM

Come on! She dumps you, jumps to some one else, its not working for her and she wants to jump back to you???

My gosh man, stop being this air heads emotional tampon, because if you allow her to suck you back she will use your love for a comfort zone, while she hunts for a better victim. She is in love only with herself and has the self control of a balloon with a hole in it.

She treats you like a big sucker. That ain't love, and neither is allowing yourself to be dogged out like this.

kalaka · May 9, 2012, 07:58 AM

My Ex spoke with me the other day and told she is not Happy with things in her life. She Asked me to lend her some money which I did. She also asked to come visit her because she needs me. I have not seen her since we broke up like 8 months ago. She broke up with me because she wanted to be in Lesbian relationship, but from what I can Figure out it's not working out for her

By the way I have Gotten over her I forgave her for all the wrongs she did me.

But she told me she is doing this because I have been asking to meet her. it is like she is telling me that she does not want to meet me like the way I want to meet her. The last time she told me she missed and we made plans to meet but i cancelled at the last moment and she told me she was looking forward to seeing me.

Now after we agree to meet up she told she doing it because of me.
My question here is should I go visit her? If yes should I bring her any gifts? Please advice.

I am really having doubts about going to visit her. the only thing I was thinking of going to her was to collect some of my belongings and collect my keys which she still have.

Wondergirl · May 13, 2012, 01:44 PM

Can you send a friend in your place? Seeing her is not a good idea.

Fr_Chuck · May 13, 2012, 01:55 PM

Send her some money to mail you the keys ?

I would not meet, don't take a gift, just meet for a few minutes get your stuff and say good bye

talaniman · May 13, 2012, 08:36 PM

Forget the stuff, and the keys. Changing the locks is a better course of action. When will you get it, and leave her alone and stop even talking to her??

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