Ok... So my ex broke up with me, then the very next day he had a new and younger girlfriend that he claims he had never met until that night.. He kept telling me that he misses me and loves me and all the stuff that he would do different. He broke up with her the day after he came to see me and told me he was going to stay single for a while to concentrate on what he really wanted, but then he tells me that he wasn't going to be calling me until he made up his mind. But he said he was still going to talk to the other girl because she lives almost right next to him. The next day I find out he got back with her the same night and when I confronted him about it he started cussing me and telling me he didn't lie to me. But now he's trying to be friends with me. I don't know what to do. I love him so much, but I don't know if he's even worth talking to.
The thing that makes it so confusing is that he would tell me he loved me more than 50 times a day, he also sings and he made two songs about me and how we'd always be together and nobody will ever come between us. The last song he wrote was recorded a week before he broke up with me. In that one he wrote that even if he walks out he'll be coming right back to me because I'm the only one that makes him feel whole and all that crap.
But our relationship went bad because we never did anything together. Everything I suggested we did he didn't want to do.. But now that he's with this new girl he does all of it...
In my mind he still loves me, but since he has this new girlfriend that is younger and less mature I feel like he thinks that he'd be happier staying the her since there is less responsibilities and he isn't being pushed to better himself.
Is it really over or is there any chance of saving it and fixing our problems? If there is any chance in saving it; how am I suppose to deal with him already been with another girl since then?:confused:

Look, he playing you OK? If he really loved you he wouldn't have to explain why he'll never do it again he just would have never hurt you in the beginning! Men have ways of sweet-talking women But talk is just hot air and showing someone that you care means a lot more than " I love you baby I'll never do it again!" No woman deserves that. It is none of my business, but it sounds like you need to worry about taking care of what you need from you rather than what you need from him.

All do respect, but why are you wasting time with a fellow that talks love, but does the opposite. He fills you with sweet NOTHINGS, and is with some one else, because he knows that he can take up where he left off with you. Tell jerkyboy to leave you alone. I don't care what he has said since logically he had to be planning to get with this other female for sometime, and that makes him a cheater as well as liar. Get this guy out of your life and love yourself enough to know that you deserve far better than him.

Keep reading the first part of your post. There should be no reson for confusion.
The guy is playing you. Use your brain, not your heart and lose this loser.

Look at what YOU want now. You're a wonderful lady who should demand more respect. Start now. If he's not straight with you and doesn't know what he wants - let him go, let him be and deal with himself! He's too much trouble for you and you no longer want to waste your time on something so uncertain - life's too short for that. It's so simple because you know what YOU want, so get a good man who knows the same. The best thing is to walk away with confidence and a smile - if you're always there for him, he'll lose respect because he then knows you'll always be there - do not be on his reserve list. Shock him and once he sees you're walking away now then it might hit him hard and he'll come chasing after you again.. until you decide real hard whether to catch him or not ;) That's now up to you. Start thinking about what he's made you think about him? He should start worrying. In the end, what's meant to be will be, seriously. You'll be just fine ;) You will.

You said it yourself, he is unable to care for you - he's just out to stroke his own ego and control others.

Forget about 'in your mind' - you are so hurt right now you cannot think logically - so how can you trust your own mind at this time. It is your emotions and fear of rejection and being alone that is forcing you to lie to yourself.

Honey, get over him, dump him, and start the healing process that millions of us go through and survive. You are not unique or alone in this, just a bad chapter in your real world.

You deserve better, so start working on that.

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