Ex Girlfriend Doesnt acknowledge me anymore

ChihuahuaMomma · Oct 25, 2009, 11:55 AM

You're no longer together. She's moved on. She's letting you off easy. You need to move on as well.

Cat1864 · Oct 25, 2009, 01:43 PM

It's time to let her go.

You are very close to having an obsession for your ex if she is all you think about when you are dating another girl. That is very disrespectful of the girl who wanted your attention and not to be a stand-in for the ex.

The ex has made her choice and is obviously trying not to flaunt her new status in front of you. Respect her boundaries and give yourself time to heal and get rid of the baggage from the relationship before you get into another rebound situation. No woman deserves to be treated like she is less desirable than another one.

rockie100 · Oct 25, 2009, 01:56 PM

It was this contact, after you two had broken up, that didn't allow you to move on. She knows if she had contact with you, her new relationship would end like yours did. I know its hard, but in time you will not miss her as much. Your next relationship will have a shot if you let yourself get over this one first.

88sunflower · Oct 25, 2009, 02:01 PM

Well maybe she was keeping contact with you to be polite and not to hurt your feelings so much.

Maybe she is uncomfortable with the feelings you still have for her while she is moving on and is happy. For this she may have decided no contact with you is the best rule to follow. Do you really want contact with her while she is with another man? Won't you want to ask questions and make statements in hopes she will come back to you?

I think you need to get over her and be comfortable with her moving on before you become friends and hang out. She doesn't want to be with you, she moved on. I am sorry your holding feelings for her, but at this point the only one hurting is you and you need to heal.

Keep an open mind when your dating and you may find yourself happy with another woman.

sully123 · Oct 25, 2009, 02:51 PM

Sounds like she was trying to let you down easy. She has moved on with a boyfriend into a new relationship. That's what you need to do! Keep seeing her and trying to talk to her won't let you heal, and she has moved on. You can't be friends that soon, the relationship just broke up a few months ago, that take time.

chargerssuck101 · Oct 26, 2009, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Cat1864

It's time to let her go.

You are very close to having an obsession for your ex if she is all you think about when you are dating another girl. That is very disrespectful of the girl who wanted your attention and not to be a stand-in for the ex.

The ex has made her choice and is obviously trying not to flaunt her new status in front of you. Respect her boundaries and give yourself time to heal and get rid of the baggage from the relationship before you get into another rebound situation. No woman deserves to be treated like she is less desirable than another one.

Okay first of all I haved moved on just not entirely because I do care about this girl. Secondly she is flauting her new boyfriend and its pissing me off. Quite frankly I think she's being a little rude about it like she's trying to get under my skin. Epecially on facebook. Maybe she's trying to make me feel bad by seeing all her new found love for her boyfriend but I'm not letting it break me. And if she cut me off completely then why is she still taking me to the Celtics game? When I'm with another girl I show that I'm having a good time and all my attension is towards them instead of michelle. But there's the fact that I still care/ love her and prob always will. I don't like giving up on someone and if there's a way then maybe ill find it. Anyways I'm not obessed with this girl and if there's any type of shot I have with her then my friendship needs to be like it used to.

ChihuahuaMomma · Oct 26, 2009, 10:13 AM

You have not moved on. If you haven't move on entirely, you haven't moved on. No contact is best to heal. Stop talking to her period.

How is she flaunting her new relationship if she's not in contact with you? And if you were over her, why would you care?

I don't think that you have another chance with Michelle. She is trying to tell you that by her actions. If you are over her, again, why do you care?

You need to cut all contact and give yourself time to heal and get over her.

Cat1864 · Oct 26, 2009, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by chargerssuck101

when I'm with another girl I show that I'm having a good time and all my attension is towards them instead of michelle. But there's the fact that I still care/ love her and prob always will. I don't like giving up on someone and if there's a way then maybe ill find it. Anyways I'm not obessed with this girl and if there's any type of shot I have with her then my friendship needs to be like it used to.

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i have been seeing someone else but all I think about is Michelle

Your full attention is not for the new girl if Michelle is the one in your thoughts.

You haven't given up on Michelle, but what about your rebound relationship? If you have moved on from Michelle, then you should be wondering why it didn't work the girl after her. Instead, you sound like that girl barely existed.

You won't find another healthy relationship until you let Michelle go and allow yourself to heal.

Be honest with yourself. Go No Contact at all.

Jayjay027 · Oct 26, 2009, 11:37 AM

Michelle hasn't been acknowledging you because she doesn't want to!
Staying friends was her way of easing her guilt after breaking up with you, she didn't really want to be friends, because if she did, you two would still be friends.
She broke up with you, and while you were harbouring false hopes of a reunion, you were making it easier for her to move on, because you kept giving her your support and time and friendship.

Let her go, you can't have an obsession like that, it's unhealthy.
Just think of it this way, you have made yourself availabke to her, and she knows how you feel - and she's still moved on anyway.
Now it's your turn to move on.
You and Michelle are over.

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