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My ex girlfriend Michelle broke up with me mid june and have been broken up for about 4 months now. During our breakup i have been seeing someone else but all i think about is Michelle. Michelle and i agreed and continued to be best friends. We talked almost everyday and hangout when we could. About 2 weeks ago Michelle met her new boyfriend and a few days after the girl i was seeing broke up with me. I love Michelle and miss her so much and she know this i believe but im trying not to show it. I tell her im happy for her and her new boyfriend. But as of lately Michelle has barely noticed me and she doesnt seem to interact wit me. I do see her everyday and shell say the occasional hello. Other than that she does glance at me to see me smiling and having a good time but i dont know if that means something or not. Anyways our friendship seems like she doesnt want to be in my life or whatever... im not sure. She did ask me to go to the Celtics game with her but she asked before she met her new boyfriend. i dont know what to do. She means so much to me.
You are very close to having an obsession for your ex if she is all you think about when you are dating another girl. That is very disrespectful of the girl who wanted your attention and not to be a stand-in for the ex.
The ex has made her choice and is obviously trying not to flaunt her new status in front of you. Respect her boundaries and give yourself time to heal and get rid of the baggage from the relationship before you get into another rebound situation. No woman deserves to be treated like she is less desirable than another one.
Your recent ex gf was just a rebound and from the looks of things, the next girl you will meet is going to be a rebound too.
So what do you do? Leave Michelle alone!
Talking to her will only make you more confused and give you false hope. You already had your chance with her and you guys broke up. Focus on recovering from your break ups.
It was this contact, after you two had broken up, that didnt allow you to move on. She knows if she had contact with you, her new relationship would end like yours did. I know its hard, but in time you will not miss her as much. Your next relationship will have a shot if you let yourself get over this one first.
Well maybe she was keeping contact with you to be polite and not to hurt your feelings so much.
Maybe she is uncomfortable with the feelings you still have for her while she is moving on and is happy. For this she may have decided no contact with you is the best rule to follow. Do you really want contact with her while she is with another man? Wont you want to ask questions and make statements in hopes she will come back to you?
I think you need to get over her and be comfortable with her moving on before you become friends and hang out. She doesnt want to be with you, she moved on. I am sorry your holding feelings for her, but at this point the only one hurting is you and you need to heal.
Keep an open mind when your dating and you may find yourself happy with another woman.
Sounds like she was trying to let you down easy. She has moved on with a boyfriend into a new relationship. That's what you need to do! Keep seeing her and trying to talk to her won't let you heal, and she has moved on. You can't be friends that soon, the relationship just broke up a few months ago, that take time.
You are very close to having an obsession for your ex if she is all you think about when you are dating another girl. That is very disrespectful of the girl who wanted your attention and not to be a stand-in for the ex.
The ex has made her choice and is obviously trying not to flaunt her new status in front of you. Respect her boundaries and give yourself time to heal and get rid of the baggage from the relationship before you get into another rebound situation. No woman deserves to be treated like she is less desirable than another one.
okay first of all I haved moved on just not entirely because I do care about this girl. secondly she is flauting her new boyfriend and its pissing me off. quite frankly I think she's being alittle rude about it like she's trying to get under my skin. epecially on facebook. maybe she's trying to make me feel bad by seeing all her new found love for her boyfriend but I'm not letting it break me. And if she cut me off completely then why is she still taking me to the Celtics game? when I'm with another girl I show that I'm having a good time and all my attension is towards them instead of michelle. but there's the fact that I still care/ love her and prob always will. I don't like giving up on someone and if there's a way then maybe ill find it. anyways I'm not obessed with this girl and if there's any type of shot I have with her then my friendship needs to be like it used to.
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