Ex Girlfriend Doesnt acknowledge me anymore

chargerssuck101 · Oct 25, 2009, 11:48 AM

My ex girlfriend Michelle broke up with me mid june and have been broken up for about 4 months now. During our breakup i have been seeing someone else but all i think about is Michelle. Michelle and i agreed and continued to be best friends. We talked almost everyday and hangout when we could. About 2 weeks ago Michelle met her new boyfriend and a few days after the girl i was seeing broke up with me. I love Michelle and miss her so much and she know this i believe but im trying not to show it. I tell her im happy for her and her new boyfriend. But as of lately Michelle has barely noticed me and she doesnt seem to interact wit me. I do see her everyday and shell say the occasional hello. Other than that she does glance at me to see me smiling and having a good time but i dont know if that means something or not. Anyways our friendship seems like she doesnt want to be in my life or whatever... im not sure. She did ask me to go to the Celtics game with her but she asked before she met her new boyfriend. i dont know what to do. She means so much to me.

thelma danielle · Nov 4, 2009, 12:34 PM

get here back. i know what your going through its rough but if you fight hard enough you'll get her back. i promise you. but she can't see what your not telling her darlin/ you have to tell her.

Cat1864 · Nov 4, 2009, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by chargerssuck101

I never said she knew. I wrote I belive that she know. and please what is the difference between loving and in love with someone since its a matter of opinion.

Loving someone is caring about them like a relative or friend.

Being in love with someone is more of how you feel about a mate or lover.

You love your brother, but you are in love with your spouse.

I really hope that someday you find a woman who can hold up her half of a relationship with you. I think you are a great guy who deserves to be happy, in love, and content in a relationship. I just don't see that happening with Michelle.

I will be honest if Michelle were the one asking what to do, I would be telling her to go No Contact with both of you and find out who she is and what she wants before she gets into another relationship. If she is confused, she isn't helping herself get off the merry-go-round as long as she keeps holding on to both of you. Even if she did choose, I don't think it would be long before another male came into the equation. At best, she is looking for something and not finding it with both of you. She needs to find whatever it is inside herself.

You deserve a mate who knows what she wants and can find happiness, love and contentment with you and only you.

Altenweg · Nov 4, 2009, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by thelma danielle

get here back. i know what your going through its rough but if you fight hard enough you'll get her back. i promise you. but she can't see what your not telling her darlin/ you have to tell her.

This is horrible advice!

It takes two people to have a relationship. Telling him to fight for someone that obviously doesn't care for him will only make the situation worse.

Besides, you're dating someone but interested in someone else. You're doing the same thing that Michelle is, playing games with other people's hearts.

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