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My ex girlfriend Michelle broke up with me mid june and have been broken up for about 4 months now. During our breakup i have been seeing someone else but all i think about is Michelle. Michelle and i agreed and continued to be best friends. We talked almost everyday and hangout when we could. About 2 weeks ago Michelle met her new boyfriend and a few days after the girl i was seeing broke up with me. I love Michelle and miss her so much and she know this i believe but im trying not to show it. I tell her im happy for her and her new boyfriend. But as of lately Michelle has barely noticed me and she doesnt seem to interact wit me. I do see her everyday and shell say the occasional hello. Other than that she does glance at me to see me smiling and having a good time but i dont know if that means something or not. Anyways our friendship seems like she doesnt want to be in my life or whatever... im not sure. She did ask me to go to the Celtics game with her but she asked before she met her new boyfriend. i dont know what to do. She means so much to me.
you people are terrible advice givers. im getting a sarcastic vibe from some of you and other still think im in denial when she clearly told me that she loves me and continues to say it. Also she asked me to come hangout with her for the first time ina while and is double texting if i dont answer within 5 min. And btw i never bought the tickets... she bought them. seems to me like you people are thinking way to hard about how she actually feels.
Seems to me that you're the one that asked the question in the first place.
Also, you should remember that we're all volunteers here, we do this because we want to help people, and instead of being gracious about the time we spent to give you advice you argued and acted like a jerk.
Have fun with your disfunctional relationship. As for me, I'm out. I'll let you learn like everyone else, the hard way.
I really wanted to be sarcastic. Unfortunately, I couldn't because if I was wrong in the first place then she is using you.
If she loves you, she has a very poor way of showing it. It is up to you to stop throwing hissyfits and tantrums like a three year old who had his toy taken away and grow up. You don't like our advice, because, unlike you, we aren't blinded by our libidos, emotions, or history with this female.
Our advice is based on what YOU tell us. We are only Jiminy Crickets to your Pinocchio.
I really wanted to be sarcastic. Unfortunately, I couldn't because if I was wrong in the first place then she is using you.
If she loves you, she has a very poor way of showing it. It is up to you to stop throwing hissyfits and tantrums like a three year old who had his toy taken away and grow up. You don't like our advice, because, unlike you, we aren't blinded by our libidos, emotions, or history with this female.
Our advice is based on what YOU tell us. We are only Jiminy Crickets to your Pinocchio.
I have to spread the rep, but here's a greenie.
Cat is right. We went by what you told us.
Bottom line, if she loves you, wants to be with you, why is she with someone else? Why doesn't she dump him and date you?
i agree with everyone's advice. you are clearly not over your ex. the girl u dated after ur ex was just a fling, a rebound. she is just using you to easer her pain. she is dating someone else. why not have an extra piece on the side? also, how does her current bf feel about you, an ex, spending time with her? obviously she is not happy with neither of you.
ps. dont be rude to those who give advice. they have nothing to gain and are just volunteers offering their time and thoughts to answer a question you posted. be respectful. if u dont like the truth, dont ask the question.
uh Yea..reading peoples answers you all seem to be heartless, you're all either bitter or are in a relationship and forgot how hard it can be to someone who loves another and is having difficulties. lighten the f**ck up & stay out of the romance department.
P.s don't tell someone to just simply "move on" as if it's like drinking water...(not as easy as you make it seem)
or "get over it"
uh Yea..reading peoples answers you all seem to be heartless, you're all either bitter or are in a relationship and forgot how hard it can be to someone who loves another and is having difficulties. lighten the f**ck up & stay out of the romance department.
P.s don't tell someone to just simply "move on" as if it's like drinking water...(not as easy as you make it seem)
or "get over it"
Heartless? No.
Bitter? No.
I haven't forgotten how hard it is to get your heart broken, been there, done that. That's why I give the advice that I do, that's why we all give the advice that we do.
Live a few more years, go through a few more break ups, then you'll see the pattern. Heck, just stick around here for a while and then you'll see it without having to go through it.
As for lightening the up, watch you mouth.
As for staying out of the romance department, if you want to run the site, then buy it, or start your own. As is, you cannot dictate who answers and who doesn't.
The OP got very valuable advice, now he's giving us attitude, when he's the one that asked the question to begin with.
No Contact is the way to go. No, it's not easy, but it is necessary.
Yes NO CONTACT is a good way to go, But people should more so give him ways to go about it. such as...picking up a new hobby, going out to meet new people (don't get hopes up early cause your most likely not going to fall in love with another for a long time) but don't let that fact make you stick to your past love. But he seems to go to school with this girl so no contact might be rather hard.
The big question to the OP is...Why did she break up with you? and if he doesnt know maybe he needs to figure that out for closure and better understanding.
uh Yea..reading peoples answers you all seem to be heartless, you're all either bitter or are in a relationship and forgot how hard it can be to someone who loves another and is having difficulties. lighten the f**ck up & stay out of the romance department.
P.s don't tell someone to just simply "move on" as if it's like drinking water...(not as easy as you make it seem)
or "get over it"
No way do you forget getting dumped, it lingers forever, no matter how well you handled it. But instead of jumping on those who are trying to help with the truth, how about some helpful pearls of wisdom from you since you know more than the rest of us and think you can reach out to someone who is so carried away by his emotions, that he can't see straight.
Go ahead its your turn to do something besides criticize!!!! Shhheesh!
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