Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help!
  Advanced
Register  |  Log in  
   Ask    
 Answer  
  Help  

Ask QuestionsprogressAnswer QuestionsprogressBuild ReputationprogressBecome an Expert
 
Free Answers in 3 Easy Steps

Register Now
3 Steps

At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to:
  • Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics.
  • Accept money for answers that you provide.
  • Communicate privately with other members (PM).
  • See fewer ads.

Home > Family & People > Relationships   »   ex GF dating a married man

 
Question Tools Search this Question Display Modes
Question
 
 
#1  
Old Dec 16, 2007, 03:30 PM
Marmar77
New Member
Marmar77 is offline
 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 1
Marmar77 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
ex GF dating a married man

A few months ago I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend and after the fight i told her I needed some space to clear my head and we should take a break. We were apart for three weeks before we me t for lunch, everything seemed ok and I slowly started to get the ball rolling again, but I tried she told me she had moved on.
My female cousin still remained friends with her and informed me that she was seeing someone, I couldn't make sense of this because we had only been on a break for under a month at most. My cousin then swore me to secrecy and told me that my now ex was dating a married man.
I was upset as was my cousin but I could not say anything to the ex about her stupid situation without breaching the trust between her and my cousin. The only thing I could made sense to me was that this was all out of spite cause my cousin told me she had suspected me of cheating when I wasn't. So because I still loved her I tried to see if she wanted to work something out but kept coming up short. My cousin then told me a few days ago that my ex had spoke to her and she said that she was through with me, she has a new man know and was in love.
I almost laughed at this because to me this looked like a text book case of rebounding. There had been barely enough time to get over me and she was on this married guys crotch in a minute. She also went as far as to tell my cousin that she wanted to keep me on the side. Since finding all of this out I've cut off all contact with her computer and phone. The only hard part for me is I love her still and truly worry about whats going to happen to her mentally and emotionally when this married guy is finished using her or his wife catches them. I keep thinking that he just played on her vulnerability and took advantage of our situation.
I've slowly moved on but I've been careful of who I've been seeing because I know my head is not fully back in the game and don't want to make her mistake by rebounding like that.

Am I on the right track? what will happened to her situation? and if she comes back by some chance how am supposed to handle that??

Reply With Quote
 
     

Answers
 
 
Old Dec 16, 2007, 05:32 PM   #2  
talaniman
Relationship Expert
talaniman is offline
 
talaniman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Space Is The Place
Posts: 14,927
talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Am I on the right track?
Yes you are.
what will happened to her situation?
By staying out of her business, because you know you have no control over her, or the mistakes she makes.
and if she comes back by some chance how am supposed to handle that??
Have no further contact with her, she has to carry her own baggage from now on. Move on with your life, and find happiness without her. Let yourself get over her, it takes time.
  Reply With Quote
 
     


Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

 
Similar Sponsors

Similar Questions
Question Asker Topic Answers Last Post
Dating a Married Man Starkissa24 Relationships 7 Nov 20, 2007 06:55 AM
Dating a Married Man mostlyconfused Relationships 16 Jul 10, 2007 05:44 PM
Dating a married man Elove Relationships 20 May 18, 2007 08:37 AM
married, dating, getting a divorce kgalindo Dating 1 May 1, 2007 11:43 AM
dating and still married priscilla2006 Dating 30 Jun 22, 2006 07:15 AM




Copyright ©2003 - 2007, Ask Me Help Desk.
All times are GMT -8. The time now is 09:34 PM.

Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC6 © 2006, Crawlability, Inc.